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  1. MOD NOTE: WARNING! Again this is a topic about how one should protect their arm hair and sangants experiences with various types of Karreh! NOT A CASTE SLANGING MATCH!!! This seriously brings down the quality of this forum. So please think before you post. This continuation of going off topic and taking threads that start off in good faith and bringing them down to a negative level will result in warnings issued. All off topic posts have therefore been removed.
  2. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!! First and foremost congratulations for walking that path of the double edges sword...... lol this is a tricky issue and im posting this publicly simply becasue im sure there are many bibiah who have this problem and are shy to ask the question so heres a method, but ultimatly, you will find a way that comfortable for you. Firstly most bibiah wear normal underwear under kashera during that time of the month. This is fine as you can still use sanitary towels. NOw with specifally with the ishaan time, before you get into the shower, prepar your underwear (with sanitory towel attached) BEFORE you get into the shower. Shower like you would do normally, and when u take one leg out of your wet kashera, dry off that leg, place ur underwear on first on that leg, then your kashera, on that leg, so that ur kashera back in contact with ur body. I find this easlier by rest my leg on the side of the bath. Place your other leg though your underwear, followed by the kashera, then "straighten" everything up and tie ur kashera as normal. Or where you are at the beggining or end of your cycle where the menstrual flow is not so heavy, once you has washed urself, just put on kashera as you would do normally, and quicky come out of bath and when you are in your bedroom, put underwear on by dropping kashera to ankles and putting underwear on, one leg at a time and your sorted. Hope that helps, if you have any other questions please join the board and PM myself or any of the other Singhniah here. We are all here to help. Keep in chardi kalah xx
  3. Mod Note: This title of this thread is to share experiences of racism and hope you overcame them, not to start a debate of the state of current worlds affairs or slating others. There seems to be a continuing trend of threads going off topic, so please stick to the topic or this thread will been edited or even removed.
  4. is this the one? theres loads of Bhai Sahib kirtan on www.sikhroots.com http://www.sikhroots.com/audio/Keertani%20...ee%20visrey.mp3
  5. DTF on the Soho should sell them I personally go Punjabi Roots, its by Smethwick Gurdwara, on the High Street.
  6. well thats you personal opinion then isnt it? I personally believe that it is indeed divine intervention that forms the basic of the type of common snese that will actually be of use to anyone in this world........ again just my opinion
  7. Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!! Heres one of my all times favourites Books... Se Kinehiya sekinehiya2006.pdf It is the autobiography of Sant Baba Harnam Singh Ji (Rampu Khera) Sant Ji was a Pooran Bhraimgyani, who's soul was merged with waheguru and this book gives a detailed account of his life and spritual experiences. This was one of the first books i read about sikhi and served as a big inspiration to my sikhi path. enjoy! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!
  8. If you still finding things difficult to grasp then please accept this humble attempt to enlighten you, many people have different reasons to pray and do path, this specific "jaap" in effect begging waheguru to look after the beloved Khalsa Panth, with this comes realisation that we, mortals are nothing, the the "wanting for" as you put it, is for waheguru to do "rakheea" of His khalsa panth. If you read Chaupai Sahib, there is no more fitting bani that demonstrates total submission to the will of God and how Guru Ji gaves us such a powerful bani to ask for nothing but his blessings and kirpa to save this world from the power of kaljug.......now specifically why, such a large number of paths? again the more ban iyou read, the power it has, reading one or two is a proper blessing, but the more you read, the more the bani draws you into it and the more the worlds of this powerful bani begin to take effect. Humari Karo Hath Deh Racha Pooran Hooee Chitt Ki Iccha Oh Waheguru Please take me by the hand and take care of me, and fulfill all my desires (desire to be at your pavitaar charan) come true. Just on the first line, if we are thinking about our panth, its history, its present and how we want to see its future, in chardi kalah, the intent behind reciting the shabad takes on a much more powerful meaning, and apply that to the rest of the full Chaupai Sahib and we have ourselves some blow-blowing kirpa courtesy of Waheguru and i have absolute faith and Waheguru will always stand by his Sikhs, as long as His Sikhs stand by Him. With the current state of somes parts of the panth, this is a brilliant opportunity to make a physical and spiritual effort to restore the Khalsa Panth to it true glory, Shabad is our Guru and we ultimately beg our Guru to save ours selves from the mess we untimatly created. Bhul Chuck Maafi
  9. Mod Note: YouTube links was removed for varies reasons, 1. the video itself has been removed from YouTube due to a violation. 2. This image is very distressing and this is a family forum, with young children so please be careful of the material you post here.
  10. Mod Note: Athough the idea of this thread is good, lets try not to express too much negitivity, violence or hatred towards others. How about we vhange the spin of it? Something along the lines of "How did you overcome racial abuse"? Baring in mind we have young children on this forum also, lets try and explore and communicate the positive side of such situations. Also there is the danger of this thread turning into a faith "bashing" match. So please folks, keep it clean and chardi kalah!
  11. waheguru.............. there will be a chaupai sahib jaap alongside the sukhmani sahib jaap for work towards the 1million target..................
  12. Some realy great replies...............it think is a beautiful notion that soul should be a vessel that transmits love.........and that we should be a beacon of light to all those around us..........there is always more pleasure in giving than recieving, as we begin to loose abit of that "self" that maharaj is telling us about..........ego............HauMai = Ha Mai = Yes I Am, if this becomes Tu Tu Tu, You You You...............how can we not become the very being that we were always meant to become? Love is freedom...........everything simply limits all that we can possibly be........... please do keep posting your thoughts
  13. Friends: The Noble Friend! The Buddha said: Friends, one should cultivate the Good Friend, who has the Seven Qualifications. What Seven ? He gives what is hard to give. He does what is hard to do. He bears what is hard to bear. He lays open his own secrets. He keeps other's secrets safe. When any is needed, he never fails. When one is ruined, he never despises. Even though he may drive you away, keep on following him, since such Noble is always motivated by the welfare of all, is genial, pleasant, refined, a revealer of profound speech, a listener who never - at any occasion - guide you wrongly.. Friendship is the Greatest ! Bhikkhu Samâhita, Sri Lanka.
  14. Was thinking about this earlier..... Everyone has an experience of Love..... whether that be family/spouse/friends etc.........everyone has some level of faith in God or the Comos, Universe............. Would love to read about how people find the balance between the two.........plx tell of ur experiences of what it is to Love..............with so much "selfish love" going about.............how you you know you are feeling the "real deal"? Please share your thoughts, and answer, not what you think people would want to read but what your own heart is telling you
  15. Because there are bigger things that deserved talking about, rather than pacifying the sikh ego by "mentioning" their exisitance..........He knows who sikhs are............and i dont realy think the world is going to be a worse place by sikhs not having a mention........lol
  16. We can only be afraid of what we believe we are-whatever there is in ourselves that we haven't met with understanding. If I thought you might see me as boring, for example, it would frighten me, because I haven't questioned that thought. So it's not people who frighten me, it's me that frightens me. That's my job, to frighten me, until I investigate this fear for myself. The worst that can happen is that I think you think about me what I think about myself. So I am sitting in a pool of me. All fear is like this. It's caused by believing what you think-no more, no less. It's always the story of a future. If you want fear on purpose, get a plan. Fear is not possible when you've questioned your mind; it can be experienced only when the mind projects the story of a past into a future. The story of a past is what enables us to project a future. If we weren't attached to the story of a past, our future would be so bright, so free, that we wouldn't bother to project time. We would notice that we're already living in the future, and that it's always now. Excerpt from A Thousand Names for Joy
  17. i admit.....im enjoying ma food waaaaaaaaaay too much!! :D
  18. ^^^ nice well heres an attempt: its more musings after hearing a particular shabad: - The unfortunate soul-bride makes this prayer: O Nanak, when will my turn come? All the blessed soul-brides celebrate and make merry; bless me as well with a night of bliss, O Lord. ||1|| When listening to the powerful words uttered by the 5th Nanak, i found myself feeling such a mixed range of emotions.........i was delighted......that He is there waiting for me...............i longed for THAT embrace................the thought overpowered my senses............the frustrations of all the useless actions that only kept me furthur from my true Soulmate.................a sense of helplessness in knowing that i would not be embraced until it was time..............but the feeling of intense rage almost.............to see others happly running into His arms and I stood there on the sidelines watching..............such love.........so much FEELING......... I longed to run with them, the luckyones, but my feet remained where there were......i watched..............i waited........i was not going to be called..................all i could do was beg........silently.............beg with all my heart for the perfect embrace............the one that would never let me go.............
  19. again............realy nice...........look forward to the rest
  20. "Competition?" for what? what are we competing? Like u can see a glass as half empty or half full, you can take this a nother group of naujawan trying to promote sikhi............. This is a beatiful thing.................its okay to throw opinions about on the forums and how about actually get off our backsides to activly involve ourselves in the parchar of sikhi............. Any group with the intent to spread the love of Guru Nanak's message is a good thing, one less group that could have been lost to violence, hate and gang crime
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