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Free Sikh Marriage Seva Event Open To All Sikhs
Guptsingh2015 posted a topic in POLITICS | LIFESTYLE
Its the time again for our next event, please share our poster and let friends and family know of the FREE event :) PLEASE LIKE AND SHARE FREE EVENT OPEN TO ALL SIKHS PLEASE LIKE OUR FACEBOOK PAGE: Sikh Marriage Seva -
WJKK WJKF, I am a 22 year old haircutted Sikh in the UK. All my life I've been haircutted, but I've always had a big interest in Sikhi from a young age and have always personally wanted to at some point in my life wear a pagh. I've been dating a girl too who I intend to marry but cannot do so until I wear a pagh, so of course this has naturally pushed me to make a decision to wear a pagh soon. However I don't know how I should tell my family because I'm so sure they're against it Having completed university and having a job ready in August, I really haven't done anything wrong in my life( i don't drink or smoke). My father used to wear a pagh, however my parents are divorced and we don't talk to father or his side of the family. I don't know how I would tell my family I want to wear a pagh because hardly anybody in my close family wears one, and just generally my mum and sisters opinion on those who wear paghs is not positive. Mom always worries that I will get brainwashed into religion or become a terrorist(things like 1984 <banned word filter activated>). She worries that I'll be targeted and won't find a job etc because of the perception of people who wear turbans. My sister doesn't like them either, she always says she'll never marry a pagh vala. I've been trying to grow my beard and constantly my mum is telling me to shave etc which I hate because I want to grow it. Obviously she doesn't know why I'm growing it, but I just know if I tell them I want to wear a pagh I will get into loads of trouble I find all this so stupid and annoying and I don't think I can cope anymore, and don't know how to tell her without her going mental. Please help me guys