This has probably come up before, but just wanted to share my experience.
So I have been widowed for four years now again through and still going through the loss of my wife I decided to start looking to potentially get married again, so I signed up to shadi, asaind8, asainsinglesolution and seeking.
I'm not the the tallest guy in the world just below 5"7, but athletic, average looking, have a good job etc , but blimey the boxes you have to tick for even getting someone to talk to you is absurd even if the lass is in her 40s and has kids.
They all want a fair skinned, non turban, 6 foot who earns over 100k when did we turn into kalay, I have been watching Kevin Samuel and all the stuff he says about women thinking they are going to get Prince charming and will go from piller to bed post to attain is spot on.
Ohh well hop aboard the passport bro train, I've met a Colombian women who is amazing and she looks like a apni.