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Singhnis Sovereignty by Singhni Miripiri Contents Singhnis Sovereignty Mens oppression Control and roles Mere objects Saints Womens status Panj Pyare Durga Non-married and married singhnia Vaheguru and Saachkhand Conclusion From the very beginning, women have been oppressed by men and it is continuously disguised till today where women are living as a slave race within every culture, race, in both human and animal kingdoms. Even the false singhs of today blindly have taken the mind of a mere animal and oppress woman in ways that have become morally acceptable and custom. Whatever I continue to write is what Vaheguru has communicated to me. No one here is above Vahegurus order and belief. Many men here will be offended and many singhnia may not want to believe this but all what I say is nothing short of the truth and should be accepted. Vaheguru is the knower of all hearts, and Vaheguru and I know what every man has disgracefully descended themselves to. Vaheguru himself has said that women have been under mens tyranny for a long time. Vaheguru only wants womens exaltation in the future, so only they will have rule, power and strength. Men will be under women. In this way, you should see that no one has any love or respect for you (singhnia) as Vaheguru does. It is beyond me why any woman would desire a man when in all of history almost every man has and is falling prey to their own matt (homai, pride, lust and anger). Vaheguru respects his soul bride and doesnt even want to see singhnia as a slave of Vaheguru or for you to even think that. There is no such thing as serving your husband. Whether anyone chooses to turn a blind eye on this, oppression of women has shamefully become the norm today. Mens oppression Control and roles Undoubtedly, men always want to be superior over women. This oppression is led by men taking control where roles are separated and women are seen as an object. Most pitiful of all, women are still doing house-keeping tasks even when she is an income earner. Despite the fact some unmarried men are housekeepers now; they still want a wife to do it for them. Certain roles are believed to belong to a woman since she becomes the Mother or perceived as the weaker gender. Whether males are also a parent, they take no accountability. Men and women should learn to take responsibilities of each others role, so that they can look after each other and simultaneously learn to be independent. Yet, till this day unknowingly women have no freedom in marriage. Thoughtlessly or not, false singhs believe Singhnia are meant to become moulded into the singhs way. This distinctively implies singhnia have no mind of their own and are just useless humans or objects that cannot live in their own happiness. This is what false singhs expect of their wife, seemingly treating them solely as robotic slaves within the household. Thoughtlessly, false singhs cannot comprehend what it is like to be told they are only born to live for a man and not themselves. Another statement made by men Singhnias real family are her in-laws. This inadvertently disrespects women since it is characteristically implying women are lost without a family from the very beginning, indicating they are not stable and have no life until they are married. This statement destroys womens independence as if she cannot live on her own, that she is only born to get married and needs support by a man. Whether openly said or not, mans pride leads them to deem it is their responsibility to help singhnia in their spirituality- I want to marry a singhni to help them in their spirituality. A singhni does not need singhs help to increase their bhagti when they can achieve this on their own. What should be instead said I need to marry a singhni to make myself a better person. Overall, by expecting women to do house hold tasks, means she cannot focus on bhagti and will only consume her energy to do bhagti. Most importantly, women have not even been brought up to care about bhagti, it is seen more of a mans part and yet the singh usually blames his spirituality on the woman. Regardless to say, although the parents are at fault, singhnia should have the mind of a queen since the name Kaur (meaning prince) has been adorned to singhnia which makes them great thinkers, take control and preserve rule. Just as a prince, singhnia should be vigilant and aware. Singhnia should desire higher statues (go to higher extents of their bhagti). Princes observe the world and its discriminations and correct their life accordingly. This is the role given to you by Vaheguru! Mere objects Men subjecting women to their role is even forced down to them when they were children. For example, the toys that they receive as a child- a girl receives dolls/baby dolls and men receive action figures. Over sexualised women through media, stories and fairy tales, are all developed to influence women to be mere objects- as an accessory to mans life. Furthermore, the way women dress, wear make-up, remove hair was originally influenced and devised by men. Consequently, they brainwash women from their childhood and endlessly of her responsibility and role, that she must always fashion herself to be attractive for men only to fulfil their lowly urges. Women are conditioned to please and desire a man. Women are not raised to think as heroes but as weaker, submissive, manipulated slaves. In this situation, you can see men are to blame for womans weakness. And as a result, a false portrayal has been given to women, where they behave weak, vulnerable and girly which was never intended for them to even possess this unusual personality. Even false singhs today expect their singhnia to have the typical girl personality and see a tomboyish personality unattractive- as though they have responsibility of who we should be and behave which makes these false singhs fall into this same characteristic of men today. Rather than desiring a strong persona of a singhni wielding a sword, they favour the weak, vulnerable appearance of a woman resulting to a submissive character. The portrayal of women influenced by men was due to their desire for kaam which therefore leads men to mould false beauty on women. To desire beauty on women is merely an animal instinct. However, mans influence has been engraved in womens mind till today where she believes she needs to be beautiful to get a good husband or even a husband at all. Singhnia have also fallen prey to this where they dress to influence false singhs. However, singhs are at fault since their determination to choose a perfect or desirable bride is based on whether she is beautiful or ugly which these false singhs disgracefully deem women as sexual objects. False singhs are not ashamed or disgusted of their own thoughts and kaam. In their own pride, they state Women are stronger than men because of their lack of kaam as though women are not better for any other reason. These men should insult their own excessive kaam yet they wrongly believe Men need to marry women to satisfy their kaam. Shamefully stating this avgun makes marriage more of prostitution. Women are not here for mens pleasure and are as human as men. These false singhs should stay away from women if they do not marry them for all the right reasons. Moreover, instead of singhs subduing their kaam they say Singhnia should wear a chunni to cover her chest. Singhnia dress modestly in the normal amount for themselves! For singhnia to cover themselves additionally for men is ridiculous since this is an Islamic concept. Singhs should respect a singhni by not looking at them as sexual objects. Singhs should learn to control their lust as that is what Sikhi teaches through naam. Furthermore, false singhs apparently think they know what true beauty is and degrade the dastar as they state Singhnia cover their head with a dastar because their hair is beautiful and sexual- Again, preserving women as the sexual objects when they should look at their own flaws. Conversely, I have yet to hear a singhni use a manmukhi thought equivalently and say mens beard is ugly. On the other hand, singhnia have only supported and see the godliness in singhs roop. Guru Gobind Singh Ji respected women which is why he gave you his same clothing and dastar, forbade make-up, shaving and jewellery. Vaheguru wants women to become above mens desires as messaged by Vaheguru, the reason why a woman gets facial hair is to make her above the ideals of a man. If women get far more hair, singhs command women to get treated when this is her own decision to make. Above all, the statement degrading singhnias dastar is an opposite matt from saachkhand since a dastar on women is their beauty! Guru Gobind singh jis stated at his time Singhnia will be the most beautiful of all implying that Vahegurus dressing makes her the most beautifully exalted one. If anyone dares to go against the beauty of Singhni roop is blind because in Saachkhand both male and females wear white chola, a beautifully adorned royal dastar (with no chuni) and their beauty is incomparable. Their dastar on its own is beauty and the body is incomplete without. To conclude, the first image of a woman was Durga and she was a stern, strong, dominant, powerful warrior amongst all including men. These are the qualities a true singh should desire from a singhni. If he does not, his matt is moving backwards from Vaheguru. Vaheguru looks for the gunns (qualities) in his soul-bride. Falling for a womans beauty is falling for nothing but flesh and blood. Her soul is what singhs should be after. Saints As a result, more male saints and warriors have only been arising all due to women being forced in the background by men. This was never a perfect future for the khalsa, which is why khalsa raj has not been achieved. Women who accept mens authority over themselves cannot achieve any power. For example, in a time of a war, men will undoubtedly instruct women to stay at home and she will listen like an obedient slave. As said by false singhs Men should go to war while women look after children consequently assuming men have no responsibility for their children and women are the weaker sex. Women are not made to bring up children since this is not her only responsibility. Maybe this role is more suited for men. Additionally, false singhs have also said we need to protect our women and children which places singhnia on the same level as an unintelligent and weak child as if they are incapable to protect themselves. Instead they should be encouraged to fight for themselves. Singhnia have potential to become far physically stronger than men. Men have a low energy status (in other terms Qi) compared to the potential of a Shakti which only singhnia can achieve which is far superior. Till this day, women have become a slave race. In Saachkhand, females role is becoming very vital! There is also a bigger picture to this since women possess something far greater, which will be explained later. Women should stop relying on men! And they need to gain the liking for Vahegurus love and godly power! Womens status Singhnia have something very special inside them that is far superior to men, beyond everyones understanding. No diminishment to a singhni will have any meaning if the special element inside is discovered. No underrating statements such as there is a reason why all Gurus are males, there are most male saints and etc mean nothing to singhnia. No one understands their supremacy. This special quality inside women will be kept gupt because this is a special gem which shouldnt be thrown away easily so I will not reveal it in this article. I would prefer singhnia awakened this themselves to discover their greatness which lives inside them. Furthermore, women are naturally full of qualities their effortless detachment to lust, their emotion, their desire for love, their lack of anger and cruelty, their lack of desire for rule which makes them naturally humbly gifted. With this gift women are better leaders and have natural leadership qualities. Women are only capable of making the world a far better place. It will be from a womans hand that khalsa raj will be achieved. Saachkhand is waiting for an army of women. The future belongs to women. Panj Pyare Vaheguru allows women in the panj pyare. You cannot blame women for not standing up when Guru Sahib asked who will give their head, since women have been oppressed for far too long which made them feel impossible to stand up. There is no confusion here since this is what Vaheguru wants. Durga Before I begin, I want everyone to be aware that Durga went to Guru Sahibs refuge, so this is not a hindu worship. In Ardas Pritam Bhaugati is presented where Durga represents the sword. The meaning can go in more depth, but I believe this jewel should be kept gupt for now. Only a saachkhand being will know what this entirely means. Guru Gobind Singh encourages the bani of chandi of // since this bani liberates you and gives you fearlessness in battle. This praise is given to women also and this is the true image of woman. Her authority was above every other god including males. Since being the first god and female who was a warrior, means that women are natural warriors more than men. From Vahegurus words: Men want to see women in the image of a prostitute; I (Vaheguru) wants to see women in the image of Shakti (element of Durga). Men are able to adopt warrior power with or without bhagti but for singhnia, it is within her blood currently at a dormant state. She is not only a destined warrior but a protector of the innocent and destroyer of tyrants. Non-married and married singhnia Firstly to married singhnia, you should gain authority over the household; you should divide your house-hold work. You should do bhagti during your free times since this is the only way to make you advance spiritually. Be vigilant to mens false desires and do not let any false singh mould you. Vaheguru has said, false Singhs dishonestly only try to stay in their image by moulding you to how much they are allowed (in Sikhi). So, do not think what little they tell you to do is nothing since it can be more. To do what a man says or to attract men, is making women nothing more than a prostitute since she is selling herself to him. Vaheguru has shown me to not trust a man even if he is being sweet, it is a pretend show. At the back of mans mind, they believe they are right in everything and women are wrong. To non-married singhnia, it is not custom to marry. It is up to you and it is your happiness. Vaheguru does not care if someone chooses not to marry. Marriage has not been your friend thus far. Bounding yourself to a man has not made you realise your full potential. Women cling and desire a man as if hes the dream of their life which makes them not realise they must fall in love with Vaheguru. Mata Gulab Kaur could only reach her full potential when her husband had passed away. Let yourself solely desire Vaheguru now. To say these women should marry for sikhi to grow through children is false. Sikhi will flourish more than you can imagine if singhnia push themselves to do bhagti. Know this: women are not bound to men. Vaheguru and Saachkhand In every way, Vaheguru has given nothing but respect to women- the way she dresses, her royal crown (dastar) makes her grandeur. In reality, beauty is far away from a quality and has only brought women to their downfall as they obsess with their beauty, especially worse when it is only to please men. While people obsess with their flesh, they forget about their soul and depart with a hideous form as a muddy dog-like face. Beauty of the soul matters because it is made up of good qualities i.e. compassion, love, spirituality, strength which attracts Vaheguru. What is more important is that you realise your charming prince is Vaheguru, he is the one waiting for you. Vaheguru has given you everything from the beginning of time. Men only come partly in your life, makes you go in cycles of happiness and sadness and then you depart without him as if he never existed in your life, as if the happiness he gave was non-existent. Vaheguru will never leave you when you die. Vaheguru is real more than humans! Your relationship with Vaheguru is real. Your life with Vaheguru is real, more than the life you have now. Your love with Vaheguru is magical and youll never experience love with any other. Saachkhand is not just a Gurdwara where you are able to go, Saachkhand is a city and is limitless. Marrying Vaheguru gives you royalty. Marrying a mere mortal gives you un-satisfaction and doesnt enhance your being. Once you marry Vaheguru, youll be free and there will never be a time when you feel alone or unhappy. Vaheguru can easily be your husband, all you need to show is that you love no other man but Vaheguru. Your hope for all men must go and you have to love Vaheguru like no other. Vaheguru must remain in your thoughts and you must be loyal as if Vaheguru is your only Husband. You must only long for Vaheguru. You must always have contentment and have faith in the good of Vahegurus will. Conclusion Remember that everything went accordingly to Vahegurus plan. For women to not grow high spiritually sooner has allowed everyone to see the true side of a man. Now that we can see, you should push yourself to do more bhagti because you are all important. It is not difficult if you take it step by step. If any singhni is in need for any help, advice or questions, you can contact me via this address singhni_miripiri@hotmail.co.uk. Finally, Vaheguru wanted this message to be passed down to you by a woman. Note: Please could singhnia forward this message to as many singhnia as possible.