Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh. Recently I got the shock of my life. My husband is cheating on me for almost 2 years. We have been married for 7 years now.. We are both amritdhari and he is cheating on me with an indian (hindu) colleague. I had this doubt and confronted him. He told me everything while crying. My whole world is shattered. People c him as a chardikala singh. He is very active in spreading sikhi. Sewa in gurdwara. I am totally broken. I also lost my nitnem. I dont go to the gurdwara anymore i feel ashamed. He feels like i should forgive him but i cant. Divorcing is no option because I dont want my family to know about this. Ive asked for advice to some but it feels like they want to hide this fact. They say forgive him and dont tell anyone else.