I am going to be a father soon. Most of the people give their newborns a drop of honey as "gudti" and the saying is that the person who gives the child gudti passes on his nature qualities to the baby. I do not believe in that but it is a tradition and often there are funny conversation which goes on in families.
My question is what is the gurmat maryada of it and does it have to be right away after the baby is born?
I know some people make amrit and give choola when the baby arrives home from the hospital.
So if I want to do something like that can we prepare the amrit in advance and take that with us to the hospital and give a drop of that to the baby?