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even if u disconnet it ull still have kaam

kaam is in u, not outside

destroy it from the souce

only method is reading banee, doing riman, seva, minumum 2 and half hours of tapisya, regular visits to gurughar

u have to do evrthing together

its not gonna be ez either

and ardaas

bhula chuka maf

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well this lies in you phenji/virji.. if you reali want to change and not watch "porn" start diverting from going to this kinda websites..

why not whenever you feel like goin to this kinda sites ... start saying waheguru.. or whenever ur surfin on the net make sure keertan is going on ... try diverting and start visiting more sikh related websites.. like this forum.. this small steps will definately will help u to curb ur desire to visit porn sites

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Thinking of Chotte Sahibzade's sacrifice and their value for us, kept me away from such things. I took amrit and do nitnem. I do not let the thought of Siri Guru Gobindh Singh ji's love for us escape from my mind any minute too.

I would suggest you to read gurbani and with waheguru's kirpa you will divert your attention from such things VERY soon.

Stay in chardikalaaaaaaaaa jio

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If you don’t think you can handle it mentally; try the physical solution.

Enable your websites blockers.

Go to your Tools, then Internet Options, once the menu comes up, click on the Content tab at the top. Then disable any pornographic or sexual material.

Hope it helped. blush.gif

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^^^^^^^^^^EXPERIENCE DOES COUNT 

LOL HAHAHAHAHAHAHA why u lil...

Shhhhh now its out in the open!! But it does remind me of all those late nights... ohhh fiddlesticks, now ive just made a real fool of myself! :)

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simran etc will all be good for one

but i think you will need to do a good bit of exercise if thas the case as well (make you tired)

also, think of it like this, you have a paag

"paag banan da ki pheda" if you will do this?

and not to mention, do your work in front of the family ji!

gustaphi maaf

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Next time, remember these words, "Sex is a part of the Body, not the Mind" Try to understand what Sex is, rather than just ignoring or suppressing it. Where does this urge come from? Why does it come to you? How often does it come and where does it go? Where is this energy coming from?

What your mind has done is created an addiction to the sexuality. This (sexual) energy has to go somewhere. Learn how to do Kirtan, learn how to play Tabla. Some effort you will have to make in diverting this energy.

Next time the urge comes to look at porn, be watchful of the mind and if you pay attention to it, you will notice that you always have an option. You can either continue forward or not do it, pay attention to this voice and observe the thoughts of the mind, don't guide it in either direction. Allow the mind to go where it wants to go, but don't follow it. In that moment, start doing Simran. You have to give the mind something more powerful and effective to follow. If the taste of Simran is powerful and important enough in your life, why would the mind want anything else?

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