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[Guest **Gupt duh**]

My sisters we are Sikhi's worst enemies

> >>

> >>I am a 25 year old Punjabi woman; I would like to share important

> >>and devastating experiences of my life with my younger sisters. All

> >>I hope is that my sisters don, t make the same mistakes as me and

> >>my friends. I was brought up in a fairly religious family, my

> >>brother kept a turban. I went out with a few Punjabi boys when I

> >>was in school, but they were all the same all they used to do was

> >>chat about cars, drink at lunchtime and get bullied by the pakis.

> >>All my other friends used to go out with pakis and they used to

> >>tell me film stuff how Abdul beat up this boy, he took me there,

> >>here and so on... All my boyfriend did was get his turban knocked

> >>off and walked me home in different directions to avoid his

> >>enemies. So I got bored and dumped him. When I went to college I

> >>was introduced by my friend to a boy called sheraz khan. At first

> >>he was a girls dream come true nice, polite, and respectful any

> >>girl would have fell in love with him. I started missing lessons

> >>and used to go to park with him and his friends. I stared smoking

> >>and drinking as he used to buy it for me. I lost my virginity to

> >>him. After about two years when I was 19, I was at his flat I loved

> >>him and wanted to marry him. So I said to him "you have a flat, I

> >>love you and want to marry you I don't care if I have to leave

> >>home." I expected him to say it's about time you asked, but I was

> >>in the shock of my life, he said "you Sikh <admin-profanity filter activated> you thought I was

> >>going to marry a kaffir who has had sex b4 marriage, I, m going to

> >>marry a pure girl from back home you were just a thing on the side

> >>to get me by" I started crying and went for the front door but one

> >>of his mates stopped me, there was about 5 of them. Then sheraz

> >>said "you can't leave that easy you owe me I've spent so much money

> >>on drugs, drink and shopping for you" Then they all gang raped me.

> >>I had no where to go I couldn't tell the police because I didn't

> >>want my family to find out, because if they disowned me I would

> >>have no where to go. My brother was scared of sheraz and his crew.

> >>They used to knock his turban off in school he couldn't do nothing

> >>then and I knew he still feared them no matter what they had done.

> >>My best friend who was going out with a paki suffered more than me.

> >>The pakis drugged her up and gang raped her. The last words she

> >>could remember before the drugs hit her was 2 boys saying "Big Ali

> >>is going to pay us £2000 if we can send this Sikh slag to Pakistan

> >>for prostitution". When she regained conscience she somehow managed

> >>to phone me, but the call got cut off when she was caught by one o

> >>the pakis (I have never heard from her or seen her again). There

> >>are so many Punjabi girls in the same situation who have no where

> >>to go and have had to stay with the pakis and live in dishonour for

> >>their survival. They have no other choice this is a growing problem

> >>within British Punjabi families. There is no support from the

> >>community and no one shows mercy. The Punjabi boys should defend

> >>themselves and their sisters with more honour and dignity. That

> >>will stop them looking like Pu**ys and make girls like them more,

> >>because a girl wants a man that can look after himself. This

> >>problem is a reality; make sure it doesn't't happen to you. If the

> >>Punjabi community doesn't deal with these kinds of problems the

> >>consequences are going to be devastating. A GOOD SOLUTION WOULD BE

> >>A PUNJABI COMMUNITY ADVICE CENTRE IN EACH AREA THAT WILL HELP GIRLS

> >>LIKE ME GET SUPPORT AND COMFORT.

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>I ATTEND TO REMAIN ANOMUNOUS AFTER DEEP CONSIDERATION FOR TIME

> >>BEING FOR THE BEST. HOWEVER IF IN THE FUTURE I HAVE DO COME FORWARD

> >>I WILL NOT BE ASHAMED BECAUSE LIFE IS A LESSON. HUMANS MAKE

> >>MISTAKSES. PLEASE SISTERS DON'T BECOME PUNJABIS WORST ENEMIES

> >>12/02/03

[tarunjeet singh]

@ :doh: @ HOMMMM :doh: @ :doh: @

[Tarrandeep_Kaur]

too much of this stuff is hapenin.

i know evry one is gona start shoutin at me...................but why get urselves into these situations in the first place. if u wer a sikh and wore bana a paki wudnt even say a word to you. its the fact that u look vulnerable to them, so ur ther targets.

mayb its tym 2 start changin????

sos if i offended you, i do feel sorry for you tho....................its kaljug

[sikh supreme]

If they were sisters of faith, they would never get involved with non-sikhs full stop.

These girls have only themselves to blame no one is forcing them to go out with anyone, or indulge in anti-sikh activties. They CHOSEN to do what they have done. So let them take responsibility for their actions. They are grown up arent they? or are they babies who need to be wrapped up in cotton wool?

I'm harsh on this issue because I and alot of brothers and sisters I know are fed up with these kind of girls. Their is nothing Sikh about them. Let future generation of these kind of girls realise that you reep what you sow.... so that they learn from mistakes of other girls why its not a gud idea to slag about.

[Sinner]

WJKK WJKF

If they were sisters of faith, they would never get involved with non-sikhs full stop.

These girls have only themselves to blame no one is forcing them to go out with anyone, or indulge in anti-sikh activties. They CHOSEN to do what they have done. So let them take responsibility for their actions. They are grown up arent  they? or are they babies who need to be wrapped up in cotton wool?

I'm harsh on this issue because I and alot of brothers and sisters I know are fed up with these kind of girls. Their is nothing Sikh about them. Let future generation of these kind of girls realise that you reep what you sow.... so that they learn from mistakes of other girls why its not a gud idea to slag about.

126646[/snapback]

Spot on. Every action has a reaction.

[sewak sikh]

My sisters we are Sikhi's worst enemies

> >>

> >>I am a 25 year old Punjabi woman; I would like to share important

> >>and devastating experiences of my life with my younger sisters. All

> >>I hope is that my sisters don, t make the same mistakes as me and

> >>my friends. I was brought up in a fairly religious family, my

> >>brother kept a turban. I went out with a few Punjabi boys when I

> >>was in school, but they were all the same all they used to do was

> >>chat about cars, drink at lunchtime and get bullied by the pakis.

> >>All my other friends used to go out with pakis and they used to

> >>tell me film stuff how Abdul beat up this boy, he took me there,

> >>here and so on... All my boyfriend did was get his turban knocked

> >>off and walked me home in different directions to avoid his

> >>enemies. So I got bored and dumped him. When I went to college I

> >>was introduced by my friend to a boy called sheraz khan. At first

> >>he was a girls dream come true nice, polite, and respectful any

> >>girl would have fell in love with him. I started missing lessons

> >>and used to go to park with him and his friends. I stared smoking

> >>and drinking as he used to buy it for me. I lost my virginity to

> >>him. After about two years when I was 19, I was at his flat I loved

> >>him and wanted to marry him. So I said to him "you have a flat, I

> >>love you and want to marry you I don't care if I have to leave

> >>home." I expected him to say it's about time you asked, but I was

> >>in the shock of my life, he said "you Sikh <admin-profanity filter activated> you thought I was

> >>going to marry a kaffir who has had sex b4 marriage, I, m going to

> >>marry a pure girl from back home you were just a thing on the side

> >>to get me by" I started crying and went for the front door but one

> >>of his mates stopped me, there was about 5 of them. Then sheraz

> >>said "you can't leave that easy you owe me I've spent so much money

> >>on drugs, drink and shopping for you" Then they all gang raped me.

> >>I had no where to go I couldn't tell the police because I didn't

> >>want my family to find out, because if they disowned me I would

> >>have no where to go. My brother was scared of sheraz and his crew.

> >>They used to knock his turban off in school he couldn't do nothing

> >>then and I knew he still feared them no matter what they had done.

> >>My best friend who was going out with a paki suffered more than me.

> >>The pakis drugged her up and gang raped her. The last words she

> >>could remember before the drugs hit her was 2 boys saying "Big Ali

> >>is going to pay us £2000 if we can send this Sikh slag to Pakistan

> >>for prostitution". When she regained conscience she somehow managed

> >>to phone me, but the call got cut off when she was caught by one o

> >>the pakis (I have never heard from her or seen her again). There

> >>are so many Punjabi girls in the same situation who have no where

> >>to go and have had to stay with the pakis and live in dishonour for

> >>their survival. They have no other choice this is a growing problem

> >>within British Punjabi families. There is no support from the

> >>community and no one shows mercy. The Punjabi boys should defend

> >>themselves and their sisters with more honour and dignity. That

> >>will stop them looking like Pu**ys and make girls like them more,

> >>because a girl wants a man that can look after himself. This

> >>problem is a reality; make sure it doesn't't happen to you. If the

> >>Punjabi community doesn't deal with these kinds of problems the

> >>consequences are going to be devastating. A GOOD SOLUTION WOULD BE

> >>A PUNJABI COMMUNITY ADVICE CENTRE IN EACH AREA THAT WILL HELP GIRLS

> >>LIKE ME GET SUPPORT AND COMFORT.

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>I ATTEND TO REMAIN ANOMUNOUS AFTER DEEP CONSIDERATION FOR TIME

> >>BEING FOR THE BEST. HOWEVER IF IN THE FUTURE I HAVE DO COME FORWARD

> >>I WILL NOT BE ASHAMED BECAUSE LIFE IS A LESSON. HUMANS MAKE

> >>MISTAKSES. PLEASE SISTERS DON'T BECOME PUNJABIS WORST ENEMIES

> >>12/02/03

125855[/snapback]

hey sis ur story is heart throbing

but as for now what has happened has happened u cant deny or change it

as u say life is a lesson u too have to change now

many people will many kinds of thinGs probably bad ones to u for wat u have donre in the past

NOW U R LOOKING FOR A SOLUTION I SUPPOSE

SO SOLUTION IS GURU JI'S SHARAN

FOR THAT MATTER OF FACT GURU JI R ALWAYS WITH U

REMEMBER GANKA PAPAN WHO WAS A PROSTITUTE BY PROFFESION

HERE IS HER STORY

ONE NIGHT IT WAS RAINING CATS AND DOGS. A SAINT with a parrot GOING TO HARIDWAR WANTED TO HAVE A STOP BECOZ OF THIS AND WANTED A PLACE TO REST IN .AFTER ROAMING ARND HE FOUND ONE HOUSE.SAINT JI KNOCKED THE DOOR WHO COMES OUT GANKA .

NOW READ THE FULL STORY

SAINT:BETI KI IK RAAT VASTE RUKAN NU JAGA MILEGI(daughter can i spend a night here becoz extreme rain is takin place)

GANKA: KI KYA BABA JI BETI. BETI tan MENU AAJ TAK KISI NE AKHYA HI NAHI.(no body ever called me a daughter) {becoz wat I dO}

SAINT:KUCH KHAWAN NU MILEGA(pls give something to eat)

GANKA:HUNE LO BABAJI (wait a minute)

(next day morning)

SAINT :BETI HUN MAI CHALEYA HA HARDWAR(now i will leave for my destinaiton)

BUT THERE IS ONE PROBLEM

GANKA:WHAT BABAJI?

SAINT : I CANNOT CARRY THIS PARROT TO HARDWAR

GANKA: NO PROBS BABAJI I WILL KEEP HIM

SAINT: BUT DAUGHTER HIS BREAKFAST IS A BIT DIFFERENT

GANKA:WHAT BABAJI?

SAINT :EVERDAY AMRIT WELA THIS HAS TO BE MADE TO LISTEN RAM RAM FOR 2HRS

GANKA: I WILL DO IT BABAJI U DONT WORRY

NOW THE SAINT GAVE GANKA THE MARG AND GANKA DID IT TILL END OF HER LIFE AND ACHIEVED SALVATION

THAT'S WHY GURU TEGH BAHADUR SAY:

"NAAM SADA SUKHDAHI HAR KO NAAM SADA SUKHDAHI

JAAK KE UCHRE AJAMAL UTHRE GANKA HU GAT PAYI

HAR KO NAM SADA SUKH DAYI"

NOW FOR U PAST IS PASTGURU ARJAN DEV JI SAY:

AGHA KO TARAN {LOOK FWD}

PICHE MOD NA PHEDA{NO BACKWARDS}

NOW TAKE AMRIT GO TO PANJ PYARAS TELL THEM EXACTLY WAT HAPPEND AND ALL BE TRUE NOTHING TO HIDE

BE AN AMRITDHARI(preferably come to AKAL TAKHT SAHIB AMRITSAR,{VISIT HARMANDIR SAHIB TOO } AND TELL THE PANJ FOR WAT HAPENED TO U AND WAT IS HAPPENING AND STARTA REAL NEW LIFE) AND FROM NOW ONLY GURU GRANTH SAHIB IS THE ONLY GURU ,FATHER ,MOTHER ETC:

"TU MERO PITA TU HAI MERO MATA

TU MERA BANDHAP TU MERA BHRATA"

LISTEN TO GURBANI ,RECITE NAAM, BE AN AMRITDHARI AND FINALLY ACHIEVE SALVATION .

WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA

WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH

[Akaal Purakh Di Fauj]

WJKK WJKF

If they were sisters of faith, they would never get involved with non-sikhs full stop.

These girls have only themselves to blame no one is forcing them to go out with anyone, or indulge in anti-sikh activties. They CHOSEN to do what they have done. So let them take responsibility for their actions. They are grown up arent  they? or are they babies who need to be wrapped up in cotton wool?

I'm harsh on this issue because I and alot of brothers and sisters I know are fed up with these kind of girls. Their is nothing Sikh about them. Let future generation of these kind of girls realise that you reep what you sow.... so that they learn from mistakes of other girls why its not a gud idea to slag about.

126646[/snapback]

Spot on. Every action has a reaction.

126660[/snapback]

Dont be stupid, no one deserves that to be done to them, despite of the type of person they are For you to even say that, 'every action has a reaction' to something like this, makes me sick.

Its not that girls, fault for walking away from Sikhi. Its our fault!!! We havent told the world how great this beloved Sikhi of ours is.

Its our fault

arghhhhhhhhhhh, i want to shoot someone

[Sinner]

WJKK WJKF

Aite Safe. Sorry if I offended anyone.

I was supporting the fact that the gyals should not start anything in the first place.

If you plant an evil seed, it will grow into a fierce and ruthless plant. With situations like this, If you start <banned word filter activated> with someone, <banned word filter activated> is gonna come back.

Once again, sorry if I offended anyone and for any damage caused.

Peace

[sewak sikh]

i think this is a very serious issue

i HEREBY ENCOURAGE MORE SINGHS AND SINGHNEES TO FLOAT THEIR VIEWS IN.

[Guest Guest]

Vaheguru Jee.

First, how are we "sikhi's worst enemies" - i think your title is a bit confused.

About this whole thing, Rajinder bhaji is correct. THIS IS OUR OWN FAULT. You will rarely ever see a Muslim girl running off with a "Sikh" or even Punjabi guy and losing her virginity and religion and culture and everything for it. The Muslim girls are kept close to their brothers

In Sikhi today we think our only sisters are the blood ones we are related to -- but in all honestly, our sisters are ANY GIRL BORN IN A SIKH FAMILY. If we realized that, we would reach out to these girls who have a potential of going down the wrong path!!

The only reason they turn to Muslim guys is because they are not finding enough love at home and in their bad sangat (or at the Gurdwara because no one reaches out to them and helps them, and wonders if they're doing ok)