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[chandanjit kaur]

Fateh

omg....panji ur story is heartbreaking...yet i dunno wat to say.....in a way its evryone's fault....u wer just too blinded into these kinda things and u didnt know till after that wat u did was completely wrong and now its a paap.....yet guru sahib will forgive anyone........i know how you feel....but become an amrit taari....no use in lookin back....you have a future ahead.....and you want that rite,hana?.....well then take amrit,jap naam,do simran,mool mantar,watever you can do....all will be fine if you become one of guru sahibji :TH: ...promise!

Fateh

[singh_comradz]

My sisters we are Sikhi's worst enemies

> >>

> >>I am a 25 year old Punjabi woman; I would like to share important

> >>and devastating experiences of my life with my younger sisters. All

> >>I hope is that my sisters don, t make the same mistakes as me and

> >>my friends. I was brought up in a fairly religious family, my

> >>brother kept a turban. I went out with a few Punjabi boys when I

> >>was in school, but they were all the same all they used to do was

> >>chat about cars, drink at lunchtime and get bullied by the pakis.

> >>All my other friends used to go out with pakis and they used to

> >>tell me film stuff how Abdul beat up this boy, he took me there,

> >>here and so on... All my boyfriend did was get his turban knocked

> >>off and walked me home in different directions to avoid his

> >>enemies. So I got bored and dumped him. When I went to college I

> >>was introduced by my friend to a boy called sheraz khan. At first

> >>he was a girls dream come true nice, polite, and respectful any

> >>girl would have fell in love with him. I started missing lessons

> >>and used to go to park with him and his friends. I stared smoking

> >>and drinking as he used to buy it for me. I lost my virginity to

> >>him. After about two years when I was 19, I was at his flat I loved

> >>him and wanted to marry him. So I said to him "you have a flat, I

> >>love you and want to marry you I don't care if I have to leave

> >>home." I expected him to say it's about time you asked, but I was

> >>in the shock of my life, he said "you Sikh <admin-profanity filter activated> you thought I was

> >>going to marry a kaffir who has had sex b4 marriage, I, m going to

> >>marry a pure girl from back home you were just a thing on the side

> >>to get me by" I started crying and went for the front door but one

> >>of his mates stopped me, there was about 5 of them. Then sheraz

> >>said "you can't leave that easy you owe me I've spent so much money

> >>on drugs, drink and shopping for you" Then they all gang raped me.

> >>I had no where to go I couldn't tell the police because I didn't

> >>want my family to find out, because if they disowned me I would

> >>have no where to go. My brother was scared of sheraz and his crew.

> >>They used to knock his turban off in school he couldn't do nothing

> >>then and I knew he still feared them no matter what they had done.

> >>My best friend who was going out with a paki suffered more than me.

> >>The pakis drugged her up and gang raped her. The last words she

> >>could remember before the drugs hit her was 2 boys saying "Big Ali

> >>is going to pay us £2000 if we can send this Sikh slag to Pakistan

> >>for prostitution". When she regained conscience she somehow managed

> >>to phone me, but the call got cut off when she was caught by one o

> >>the pakis (I have never heard from her or seen her again). There

> >>are so many Punjabi girls in the same situation who have no where

> >>to go and have had to stay with the pakis and live in dishonour for

> >>their survival. They have no other choice this is a growing problem

> >>within British Punjabi families. There is no support from the

> >>community and no one shows mercy. The Punjabi boys should defend

> >>themselves and their sisters with more honour and dignity. That

> >>will stop them looking like Pu**ys and make girls like them more,

> >>because a girl wants a man that can look after himself. This

> >>problem is a reality; make sure it doesn't't happen to you. If the

> >>Punjabi community doesn't deal with these kinds of problems the

> >>consequences are going to be devastating. A GOOD SOLUTION WOULD BE

> >>A PUNJABI COMMUNITY ADVICE CENTRE IN EACH AREA THAT WILL HELP GIRLS

> >>LIKE ME GET SUPPORT AND COMFORT.

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>

> >>I ATTEND TO REMAIN ANOMUNOUS AFTER DEEP CONSIDERATION FOR TIME

> >>BEING FOR THE BEST. HOWEVER IF IN THE FUTURE I HAVE DO COME FORWARD

> >>I WILL NOT BE ASHAMED BECAUSE LIFE IS A LESSON. HUMANS MAKE

> >>MISTAKSES. PLEASE SISTERS DON'T BECOME PUNJABIS WORST ENEMIES

> >>12/02/03

this story has been in circulation for a few years through emails etc..

People learn from their mistakes but whoever had typed this claimed that punjabi guys were 'acting like p*****s.'

I've read other emails of girls but this one doesn't strike a sympathetic cord with me.

She decided to go out with the same guy who knocked her brothers pagg off. Right that shows how much sense she had

And rather than fully acknowledging her own mistakes she tries to throw the blame on punjabi guys and makes generalisations.

Maybe it didn't occur to her that not all guys lost their ankh when this stuff was alot more apparent a few years back. There were guys who sacrificed alot to protect the honour of some of these girls who indulged with Muslims. And where did the fighting etc.... get them. Prison sentences and criminal records. And did the concerned girls give a crap, well no cus it didn't make a difference to them.

Thankfully most girls have their heads screwed on but how much can you seriously do for a lost cause.

She also states that 'a girl wants a man that can look after himself.' Okay right, is that why she decided to go with that Muslim guy.

[njjassa]

sat shri akal i dont know about your name but i ll regard as my own sis i agree with u the problem is we i mean all guys have this pride as turban(dastaar) no one likes gettin em off but thas not the only solution who da hell is going to defend our sisters, mothers, and children its not only about a muslim guy its about every single human being whos like that i seen some sikh guys who makes fun of turbaned guy the problem is not about muslims the problem we gota knw our limits too especially punjabi girls no body likes when a sikh girl goes out with a muslim guy but nobody would like this either a sikh girl gettin raped by some gang we need to protect us and our family our pride is much more in our family rather bahari dikhava i just wrote wht i wanted to say about this baki u guys better than me wt to do coz tussin sare mere naalon vaddh syane ho