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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

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yeah i agree...

Heera veer ji is so cool.. i love him

lmao.... LOL.gif

anywhoooo :lol: ......

people now-a-days just go out with someone for you know what. they dont go with someone because of who they are no.gif :umm: look at a persons personality and the love they have for Guru (if youre a ture sikh that is. if youre not, then who really cares. but dont cry after you die... hey! that rhymes "dont cry after you die"...hehehe

...but yeah.. its just wrong...and they shouldnt do that...its disgusting...eeww....

andwhoo...i'll stop right here

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that last guests post was so true to some extent. I think all this beauty thing makes some women feel insecure and then they need to convince themselves that they worth something by getting into a physical relationship wih a bloke.

Its all sad because in their attempt to be valued they really lose any value, any self respect, any respect.

And Squall bro getting into a relationship b4 marriage is WRONG bro its not old fashioned to disagree with you.

and lol first impressions are a big thing so the first 5mins are important. Did u know even interviewers have made up abt 90% of the decision of if to take u on, in the first 30 seconds(i think).

and did u know that ppl in arranged marriages overall feel more content with life as their married life goes compared to those that have a ''love'' :lol: marriage cos they feel happy at start and then feel not so content over the yrs.

Therefore according to some research, how reliable dunno, an assisted marriage is better, and thats according to 'modern' day research lol.

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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

130608[/snapback]

yeah i agree...

Heera veer ji is so cool.. i love him

lmao.... LOL.gif

anywhoooo :umm: ......

people now-a-days just go out with someone for you know what. they dont go with someone because of who they are no.gif :umm: look at a persons personality and the love they have for Guru (if youre a ture sikh that is. if youre not, then who really cares. but dont cry after you die... hey! that rhymes "dont cry after you die"...hehehe

...but yeah.. its just wrong...and they shouldnt do that...its disgusting...eeww....

andwhoo...i'll stop right here

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yeah khalsa girl.. u sometimes go tooooo far with things..... :lol:

and love heera.. thts a first! LOL.gif

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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

130608[/snapback]

yeah i agree...

Heera veer ji is so cool.. i love him

lmao.... LOL.gif

anywhoooo :umm: ......

people now-a-days just go out with someone for you know what. they dont go with someone because of who they are no.gif:@ look at a persons personality and the love they have for Guru (if youre a ture sikh that is. if youre not, then who really cares. but dont cry after you die... hey! that rhymes "dont cry after you die"...hehehe

...but yeah.. its just wrong...and they shouldnt do that...its disgusting...eeww....

andwhoo...i'll stop right here

130610[/snapback]

yeah khalsa girl.. u sometimes go tooooo far with things..... :lol:

and love heera.. thts a first! LOL.gif

130646[/snapback]

why you....*shaking fist*

lol

and whats wrong with loving Heera veer ji???

youre just jeleous because you dont have the gutts to say stuff like this...and btw (by the way), i dont "like" like him...God :glare: i just said that because i think he would be a great older brother...

i always wanted one...ever since i turned 10ish actually.... :umm:

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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

130608[/snapback]

yeah i agree...

Heera veer ji is so cool.. i love him

lmao.... LOL.gif

anywhoooo :umm: ......

people now-a-days just go out with someone for you know what. they dont go with someone because of who they are no.gif:@ look at a persons personality and the love they have for Guru (if youre a ture sikh that is. if youre not, then who really cares. but dont cry after you die... hey! that rhymes "dont cry after you die"...hehehe

...but yeah.. its just wrong...and they shouldnt do that...its disgusting...eeww....

andwhoo...i'll stop right here

130610[/snapback]

yeah khalsa girl.. u sometimes go tooooo far with things..... :lol:

and love heera.. thts a first! LOL.gif

130646[/snapback]

why you....*shaking fist*

lol

and whats wrong with loving Heera veer ji???

youre just jeleous because you dont have the gutts to say stuff like this...and btw (by the way), i dont "like" like him...God :glare: i just said that because i think he would be a great older brother...

i always wanted one...ever since i turned 10ish actually.... :umm:

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so sorry ..i forgot to put this in my post above:

i still love you penji!!

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that last guests post was so true to some extent. I think all this beauty thing makes some women feel insecure and then they need to convince themselves that they worth something by getting into a physical relationship wih a bloke.

Its all sad because in their attempt to be valued they really lose any value, any self respect, any respect.

And Squall bro getting into a relationship b4 marriage is WRONG bro its not old fashioned to disagree with you.

and lol first impressions are a big thing so the first 5mins are important. Did u know even interviewers have made up abt 90% of the decision of if to take u on, in the first 30 seconds(i think).

and did u know that ppl in arranged marriages overall feel more content with life as their married life goes compared to those that have a ''love'' :lol: marriage cos they feel happy at start and then feel not so content over the yrs.

Therefore according to some research, how reliable dunno, an assisted marriage is better, and thats according to 'modern' day research lol.

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relationships are good to some extent..

like heera said .. no physical .. than ur ok ..

aside from that .. a relationship is NEEDED when your at the 'marrying age' ..thats the key .. when your aboujt to get married .. u should go out with a bibi .. (ie. dinner.. movies.. etx..) good places like that .. to hang out to get to know each other better ..

WHY ?

then you adopt a better understanding of one another.. go out wit each other at least a couple of months then you would know if or not you would be able to spend the rest of ur life wit him/her ..

cuz the worst that can happen is fights every day .. yelling at each other.. disagreeing on every matter.. not getting along wit each other or each others parents.. and thsi can all lead to divorce .. would u want that ?

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goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

130608[/snapback]

yeah i agree...

Heera veer ji is so cool.. i love him

lmao.... LOL.gif

anywhoooo :umm: ......

people now-a-days just go out with someone for you know what. they dont go with someone because of who they are no.gif:@ look at a persons personality and the love they have for Guru (if youre a ture sikh that is. if youre not, then who really cares. but dont cry after you die... hey! that rhymes "dont cry after you die"...hehehe

...but yeah.. its just wrong...and they shouldnt do that...its disgusting...eeww....

andwhoo...i'll stop right here

130610[/snapback]

yeah khalsa girl.. u sometimes go tooooo far with things..... :lol:

and love heera.. thts a first! LOL.gif

130646[/snapback]

why you....*shaking fist*

lol

and whats wrong with loving Heera veer ji???

youre just jeleous because you dont have the gutts to say stuff like this...and btw (by the way), i dont "like" like him...God :glare: i just said that because i think he would be a great older brother...

i always wanted one...ever since i turned 10ish actually.... :umm:

130666[/snapback]

khalsa gurl.. i wasn't jelous of heera.... man why would i be ... i already have 2 bros! rolleyes.gif

... and belive me khasla girl.. U DONT want a bro... trust me.... :TH:

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Explain what ya mean by physical or do ya just mean that your having sex in the relationship.i can understand if thats what your sayn.

goin out n chillin is one thing... i.e. dinner... talkin... coffee... bowling or whatever... i's what u DO when ur out tha's the major difference... if u doin physical stuff then tha's a no-no...

and what we're sayin is not 'old fashioned'... when people talk about 'going out' or 'relationships'... thats usually sayin that there's PHYSICAL stuff goin on... and tha's straight up wrong and against sikhi (before marriage)...and it don't matter if YOU think i's okay.. 'cause.. what u think don't mean nothing (if u following or tryin to follow the path of sikhi)... especially if ur amritdhari, 'cause u gotta go by what the panj pyaray tell you.. and not on your OWN beliefs...

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