Not Interested.

[proud_to_be_singhni]

i have a friend who i consider as my brother.

recently hes been acting strange and dropping hints.

im not interested at all.

i keep avoiding him, but now i realise that thats the cowardly approach.

i dont want to upset or hurt him because i value his friendship.

HOW do i tell him that im not interested, without hurting his feelings?

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Penji the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Do what your heart says and you'll be okay.

Ardas to vaheguroo remember before anything you do.

Goodluck!

[Guest Guest]

Vaahigurooo!!

you are blessed to have an understanding and to be going through this,

lucky are those who face the tests of faith and are actually ready to play the game with Him...

[Guest Guest]

thanks for the advice everyone. it helped alot

the situation has been resolved, but i have lost myself a friend.

[Sinner]

VJKK VJKF

Aw, don't worry about it, you haven't lost a friend. Give it some time for things to settle down. Maybe you two need a lil space for a while. I’m sure he'll come round soon.

Take care

[Guest Guest]

i don't think so somehow.

his pride was damaged badly.

ive tried talking to him, but he wont listen. he jus looks really upset, and ignores me if i try to talk to him.

its my fault, i was too blunt.

[Heera Singh]

nah... u can't say that... saying it blunt jus means u tellin him straight up... if he can't take it then its too bad for him... u gotta move on.. don't let this affect u too much

[proud_to_be_singhni]

nah... u can't say that... saying it blunt jus means u tellin him straight up... if he can't take it then its too bad for him... u gotta move on.. don't let this affect u too much

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what pajee said :TH: :music:

[amarjeet_singh_1699]

hahahha

its good u were blunt. so wat if u hurt his ego, he shud control his kaam

[Guest Guest]

so are you telling me bhaji, that you have ALWAYS controlled your kaam.

your EGO has NEVER got the better of you?

thankyou Heera Bhaji, i'll follow your advice. nice to know that some take this situation seriously, rather than laughing at other people.

[singh_sandhu]

Penji look on the bright side, @ least you were straight up. It's cleared misunderstandings.

I think you done a brilliant job :TH:

And as amarjeet_singh_1699 Paji said the boi needs to control hiz Kaam !