Do We Really Need A Decent Singh?

[proud_to_be_singhni]

Toall my penji's and paaji's who feel when they will meet their partner (to myself too) lets not forget the bigger picture and not lose our real aim....marriage is and will happen in His hukum...the time of it only Guru ji knows..we must learn to accept and live in His Will....until that time and not go off in search of love or marriage...our true love is Vaheguru and Our soul marriage will be to the Lord Vahguru too. Gristhii jeevan will come to those who are predestined And/Or Who do enough Bani and simran for a Gursikhi jeevan which Includes a married life.

This Shabad is by Bhagat Kabeer Ji in Raag Gauree on Pannaa 339

gauVI ]

gourree ||

Gauree:

mweI moih Avru n jwinE AwnwnW ]

maaee mohi avar n jaaniou aanaanaa(n) ||

O mother, I do not know any other, except Him.

isv snkwid jwsu gun gwvih qwsu bsih mory pRwnwnW ] rhwau ]

siv sanakaadh jaas gun gaavehi thaas basehi morae praanaanaa(n) || rehaao ||

My breath of life resides in Him, whose praises are sung by Shiva and Sanak and so many others. ||Pause||

ihrdy pRgwsu igAwn gur gMimq ggn mMfl mih iDAwnwnW ]

hiradhae pragaas giaan gur ga(n)mith gagan ma(n)ddal mehi dhhiaanaanaa(n) ||

My heart is illuminated by spiritual wisdom; meeting the Guru, I meditate in the Sky of the Tenth Gate.

ibKY rog BY bMDn Bwgy mn inj Gir suKu jwnwnw ]1]

bikhai rog bhai ba(n)dhhan bhaagae man nij ghar sukh jaanaanaa ||1||

The diseases of corruption, fear and bondage have run away; my mind has come to know peace in its own true home. ||1||

eyk sumiq riq jwin mwin pRB dUsr mnih n Awnwnw ]

eaek sumath rath jaan maan prabh dhoosar manehi n aanaanaa ||

Imbued with a balanced single-mindedness, I know and obey God; nothing else enters my mind.

cMdn bwsu Bey mn bwsn iqAwig GitE AiBmwnwnw ]2]

cha(n)dhan baas bheae man baasan thiaag ghattiou abhimaanaanaa ||2||

My mind has become fragrant with the scent of sandalwood; I have renounced egotistical selfishness and conceit. ||2||

jo jn gwie iDAwie jsu Twkur qwsu pRBU hY QwnwnW ]

jo jan gaae dhhiaae jas t(h)aakur thaas prabhoo hai thhaanaanaa(n) ||

That humble being, who sings and meditates on the Praises of his Lord and Master, is the dwelling-place of God.

iqh bf Bwg bisE min jw kY krm pRDwn mQwnwnw ]3]

thih badd bhaag basiou man jaa kai karam pradhhaan mathhaanaanaa ||3||

He is blessed with great good fortune; the Lord abides in his mind. Good karma radiates from his forehead. ||3||

kwit skiq isv shju pRgwisE eykY eyk smwnwnw ]

kaatt sakath siv sehaj pragaasiou eaekai eaek samaanaanaa ||

I have broken the bonds of Maya; the intuitive peace and poise of Shiva has dawned within me, and I am merged in oneness with the One.

kih kbIr gur Byit mhw suK BRmq rhy mnu mwnwnW ]4]23]74]

kehi kabeer gur bhaett mehaa sukh bhramath rehae man maanaanaa(n) ||4||23||74||

Says Kabeer, meeting the Guru, I have found absolute peace. My mind has ceased its wanderings; I am happy. ||4||23||74||

This Shabad is by Guru Arjan Dev Ji in Raag Gauree on Pannaa 253

sloku ]

salok ||

Shalok:

kuMt cwir dh idis BRmy krm ikriq kI ryK ]

ku(n)tt chaar dheh dhis bhramae karam kirath kee raekh ||

He wanders around in the four quarters and in the ten directions, according to the dictates of his karma.

sUK dUK mukiq join nwnk iliKE lyK ]1]

sookh dhookh mukath jon naanak likhiou laekh ||1||

Pleasure and pain, liberation and reincarnation, O Nanak, come according to one's pre-ordained destiny. ||1||