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penji... singhni_1984 ThankYou for your input....

some points I liked>

"....well guys if you do wanna see bibiyan stop commiting kureht becasue of these issues than you need to show the female race that you accept them as gursikhs...because it is your NON-acceptance that they are scared of..."

"....photoes just encourages people to judge you on appearence and says nothing for the beautiful characters that you all are...."

and also to 'K' aswell...reassuring words (took a longg time to understand though, lol.. :wub: . :TH: . Thanx sis.

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Also penji it is such a issue...we do see lots of bibiyan commiting kurehits coz of this. Me...I aint never going to...I'd rather die first.

Vaheguruu mehr rakhan.

Also penji dont You be sorry for me to go thru these issues it shud be the unknowledged or not willing to accept singhs that need to sort this out.

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marriages,husbands,wife,wealth,these are all gifts from God.they can come as either a blessing or a curse according to His will.

a gursikh always through Guruji's kirpa ,turns attention away from these needs as much as possible towards finding bliss at the sweet charan kamal of Guruji.a gursikh lives fer the purpose of the supreme pleasure of Guruji.a sikh is too engrossed sipping amrit of naam to worry and fret over this things .

of course pita Guru is the supreme architect of our destiny and he knows better than anyone else how to 'spoil' his guru ke lal with innumberable blessings and gifts.gursikhs never look to the world to beg or hope for anything ,cos Guruji is the supreme fulfiller of their every need and desire.

the more and more guru's beauty and strength and love and light and life flows through us we become so radiant,peacefilled,so beautiful,so joyful that everyone is drawn and attracted to us like iron to magnets.Guru never leaves us shortchanged.

why bother with the silly attitudes of people who reject us because of something wrong in their own screwed up thinking and brains.in this game those who are so unfortunate to reject a beautifully created khalsa darling daughter of GURU GOBIND SINGH JI,are asking for the biggest trouble and conflict with God himself.they will be the end losers.throughout their lifes,God is going to make them realise the sin of what they have done,and regret it again and again .and punishment will also come in the form of their chosen partners for marrige in very painful ways .i am 48 and i have seen all this before my eyes .

dearest daughter of supreme PURUKH AGAMBRA ,BADSHAH DERVISH,KADRE HAR KAAR ,GURU GOBIND SINGH,your daddy guruji has for you as a gift the most gorgeous ,loving ,etc,husband cos he likes to spoil you .wen god gives to beloveds it astounds and shocks the world cos in his giving there is no shortage.so just chill and take it easy at the laps of our beloved Guruji,keep your dhyan on him,make your amritvela jaap and nitnem xciting ,vibrant,powerful,and immerse yerself in gurbani,gursikh sangat,etc and just love em all.dont let anyone parade and drag you around to be 'shown'to perspective suitors like an object for them to purchase.let the world come to you as you stay chilled in the embrace of Guruji.let them beg and beg before you ever agree to marriage .even then make your choice according to Guruji's voice within you .

remember you are a princess.a princess waits fer suitors to come to her ,and rather prefers to stay a spinster than beg any man marry her .a singnee is a beautiful lioness who everyone admires,and fears and loves.

look for sympathy,pity from no one.dismiss this as even an issue fer discussion or worry.let through prema bhagti ,your thoughts,life,emotions,focus ,be directed towards the feet of MOST HANDSOME,LOVE INCARNATE,RADIANT,SHINING,POWER MANIFEST,DHAN DHAN DHAN GURU GOBIND SINGH Ji.he is all you need and whatever else you need let him decide wat it is and leave it to him to give it to you.

and be prepared to be surprised by HIM.

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Reading some of the posts and comments is making me ashamed to be a Singh.

I kinda wish it aint true, but i know it is.

"Sons of Guru Gobind Singh" wow, just stop and think about that. That is what we are supposed to be. How far short we are falling (and this marriage thing aint the only thing we should be accused of).

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thats wicked penj that you not lettin it affect you....

i just hope that this has bought enuf awareness to the issue so that people change there way of thinking when it comes to such issues....

as you say....vaheguruu mehr rakhan

bhul chuk maaf

vaheguru

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penji ..

i dont know how much awareness it has brought among singhs ..just by discussing on this forum between 15-20 people..

awareness can be brought by radical changes and radical steps by this i dont mean go ahead and start beating them up... those changes are possible only if our inner conscious is awake and we can change ourselves for good..

sad but true for many of us the conscious mind is dead and it is just material mind that is taking all the decisions and ruling us...

as everybody has mentioned keep the faith and things will turn out to be in chardikala..

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marriages,husbands,wife,wealth,these are all gifts from God.they can come as either a blessing or a curse according to His will.

a gursikh always through Guruji's kirpa ,turns attention away from these needs as much as possible towards finding bliss at the sweet charan kamal of  Guruji.a gursikh lives fer the purpose of the supreme pleasure of Guruji.a sikh is too engrossed sipping amrit of naam to worry and fret over this things .

of course pita Guru is the supreme architect of our destiny and he knows better than anyone else how to 'spoil' his guru ke lal with innumberable blessings and gifts.gursikhs never look to the world to beg or hope for anything ,cos Guruji is the supreme fulfiller of their every need and desire.

the more and more guru's beauty and strength and love and light and life flows through us we become so radiant,peacefilled,so beautiful,so joyful that everyone is drawn and attracted to us like iron to magnets.Guru never leaves us shortchanged.

why bother with the silly attitudes of people who reject us because of something wrong in their own screwed up thinking and brains.in this game those who are so unfortunate to reject a beautifully created khalsa darling daughter of GURU GOBIND SINGH JI,are asking for the biggest trouble and conflict with God himself.they will be the end losers.throughout their lifes,God is going to make them realise the sin of what they have done,and regret it again and again .and punishment will also come in the form of their chosen partners for marrige in very painful ways .i am 48 and i have seen all this before my eyes .

dearest daughter of supreme PURUKH AGAMBRA ,BADSHAH DERVISH,KADRE HAR KAAR ,GURU GOBIND SINGH,your daddy guruji has for you as a gift the most gorgeous ,loving ,etc,husband cos he likes to spoil you .wen god gives to beloveds it astounds and shocks the world cos in his giving there is no shortage.so just chill and take it easy at the laps of our beloved Guruji,keep your dhyan on him,make your amritvela jaap and nitnem xciting ,vibrant,powerful,and immerse yerself in gurbani,gursikh sangat,etc and just love em all.dont let anyone parade and drag you around to be 'shown'to perspective suitors like an object for them to purchase.let the world come to you as you stay chilled in the embrace of Guruji.let them beg and beg before you ever agree to marriage .even then make your choice according to Guruji's voice within you .

remember you are a princess.a princess waits fer suitors to come to her ,and rather prefers to stay a spinster than beg any man marry her .a singnee is a beautiful lioness who everyone admires,and fears and loves.

look for sympathy,pity from no one.dismiss this as even an issue fer discussion or worry.let through prema bhagti ,your thoughts,life,emotions,focus ,be directed towards the feet of MOST HANDSOME,LOVE INCARNATE,RADIANT,SHINING,POWER MANIFEST,DHAN DHAN DHAN GURU GOBIND SINGH Ji.he is all you need and whatever else you need let him decide wat it is and leave it to him to give it to you.

and be prepared to be surprised by HIM.

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I don't know whether to laugh out with joy or cry with joy. Your reply was so beautiful...

side note: not to sure about the punishings by Guru ji of sinners you say...only Vaheguru ji can make that judgement...we are mere mortals.

Thanku for the other comments though. :wub:

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