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This is the biggest of the biggest joke.

How can anyone expect you to not be close to your partner, is your wife maya??

So what is the point in being married if you dont love partner?

Its a union of the souls and if you dont love one another how possible?

I am sorry to say this is getting very serious now. If it is so wrong then why live together? Why have the same room?All those against it, I say get married and then come and tell us if you are sleeping in separate rooms and then how your partner reacted to this and how it is affecting your married life. If it is healthy for your family and for your children to see that the parents dont 'love another' then that is OK but I can assure you it is much healthier to have a loving stable family life to benefit all.

What some people don't seem to understand here is that you don't become close to have kids, that can be a reason but, you need love to get close in the first place and I'm going to say this in the most respectable way possible but a man cannot have a child with his wife UNLESS he likes being close to her.

Anyways I leave it at that for now.

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misskaur penji

Do a sincere Ardas with all ur heart and soul and take Hukamnama from Gurujee Himself. You can do it online or from Gurujee's saroop. He will surely answer you. What the rest of us are doing here is giving our own personal opinions. The fact that u asked this question means ur soul feels that something could be wrong. So go to the Master Himself and He shall clarify everything for u :wub:

May Gurujee bless u with a happy married life :TH:

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how is kissing or hugging going to improve ur sikhi jeevan i wonder??

and dont give me the usual of, "oh its just love, were sposed to love evry one"

the only true love is for maharaaj and all of our actions cud from this love

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how is going on sikh forums just to Criticize others going to improve your sikhi jeevan i wonder??

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how is kissing or hugging going to improve ur sikhi jeevan i wonder??

and dont give me the usual of, "oh its just love, were sposed to love evry one"

the only true love is for maharaaj and all of our actions cud from this love

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how is going on sikh forums just to Criticize others going to improve your sikhi jeevan i wonder??

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Rather than argue amongst yourselves why not answer the bhenjis question constructively.

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guru sahib is hazar nazar. god see's all and knows all.

do you people think if they are intimate when shabad is playing its beadbi, and if they are intimate when shabad is not playing it is not beadbi.

god is everywhere, shabad is everywhere. naam is swaas swaas 24/7. Do you think you can fool god. God knows everything.

If they are living in grist they are doing nothing wrong, they are listening to bani which should always be encouraged.

Who are you people to say people who live in grist can't make children when guru sahib is in the house or shabad is playing. I advise you to look in to what sikhi is. Did the singhs in puraatan times live with guru sahib and also have families, how were those families made? The act of making children is not against sikhi, just as going to the toilet isnt against sikhi, it is a part of life. To say that this is beadbi is foolish, if you can't do something infront the presence of guru sahib dont ever do it. And since guru sahib is hazar nazar present everywhere, always. If you think being intimate with your spouse is beadbi, dont ever have kids, because guru sahib is everywhere.

People need to reconsider there views, because they make no sense, speak to some elder gursikhs, open your eyes. Youth these days dont know anything, dont go to them for advice. Go to guru sahib, go to elders who have lived the life of a sikh. People with kamaaye

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wjkk wjkf

u married ur a allowed 2 be intimate with ur husband

ur sikh, u listen 2 bani

simple as, like _singh_ paji sed u do simran in ur mind anyway,

analyse the situation and break it down as simply as possible

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