Wats D Place Of Love In Religion?

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waheguru ji ka khalsa sri waheguru ji ki fateh

respected sanget ji kindly guide me abt ma problem ........coz m really screwed!!

m a gursikh boy(non amritdhari...but keeps all rehat)and in my college i have a frnd ..my junior....she is completely religious and obviously a complete sikh!!!! now my pro is dat i have developed some feelings for her which m lil hesitant to say coz i don kno eat her rxn ll be an i don wanna disturb her at all costs....an also i don wan myself go stray from my faith........so kindly clerify me dat wats d place of these feelings in our religion...

i shall be very thankfull to u

waheguru ji ka khalsa sri waheguru ji ki fateh

[One Man Army]

suK swgru surqr icMqwmin kwmDynu bis jw ky ]

sukh saagar surathar chi(n)thaaman kaamadhhaen bas jaa kae ||

He is the ocean of peace; the miraculous tree of life, the wish-fulfilling jewel, and the Kaamadhayna, the cow which fulfills all desires, all are in His power.

cwir pdwrQ Ast dsw isiD nv iniD kr ql qw ky ]1]

chaar padhaarathh asatt dhasaa sidhh nav nidhh kar thal thaa kae ||1||

The four great blessings, the eighteen supernatural spiritual powers of the Siddhas, and the nine treasures, are all in the palm of His hand. ||1||

hir hir hir n jpih rsnw ]

har har har n japehi rasanaa ||

You do not chant with your tongue the Name of the Lord, Har, Har, Har.

Avr sB iqAwig bcn rcnw ]1] rhwau ]

avar sabh thiaag bachan rachanaa ||1|| rehaao ||

Abandon your involvement in all other words. ||1||Pause||

nwnw iKAwn purwn byd ibiD cauqIs AKr mWhI ]

naanaa khiaan puraan baedh bidhh chouthees akhar maa(n)hee ||

The various Shaastras, Puranaas, and the Vedas of Brahma, are made up of thirty-four letters.

ibAws ibcwir kihE prmwrQu rwm nwm sir nwhI ]2]

biaas bichaar kehiou paramaarathh raam naam sar naahee ||2||

After deep contemplation, Vyaas spoke of the supreme objective; there is nothing equal to the Lord's Name. ||2||

shj smwiD aupwiD rhq Puin bfY Bwig ilv lwgI ]

sehaj samaadhh oupaadhh rehath fun baddai bhaag liv laagee ||

Very fortunate are those who are absorbed in celestial bliss, and released from their entanglements; they are lovingly attached to the Lord.

kih rivdws pRgwsu irdY Dir jnm mrn BY BwgI ]3]4]

kehi ravidhaas pragaas ridhai dhhar janam maran bhai bhaagee ||3||4||

Says Ravi Daas, enshrine the Lord's Light within your heart, and your fear of birth and death shall run away from you. ||3||4||

jau qum igirvr qau hm morw ]

jo thum girivar tho ham moraa ||

If You are the mountain, Lord, then I am the peacock.

jau qum cMd qau hm Bey hY ckorw ]1]

jo thum cha(n)dh tho ham bheae hai chakoraa ||1||

If You are the moon, then I am the partridge in love with it. ||1||

mwDvy qum n qorhu qau hm nhI qorih ]

maadhhavae thum n thorahu tho ham nehee thorehi ||

O Lord, if You will not break with me, then I will not break with You.

qum isau qoir kvn isau jorih ]1] rhwau ]

thum sio thor kavan sio jorehi ||1|| rehaao ||

For, if I were to break with You, with whom would I then join? ||1||Pause||

jau qum dIvrw qau hm bwqI ]

jo thum dheevaraa tho ham baathee ||

If You are the lamp, then I am the wick.

jau qum qIrQ qau hm jwqI ]2]

jo thum theerathh tho ham jaathee ||2||

If You are the sacred place of pilgrimage, then I am the pilgrim. ||2||

swcI pRIiq hm qum isau jorI ]

saachee preeth ham thum sio joree ||

I am joined in true love with You, Lord.

qum isau joir Avr sMig qorI ]3]

thum sio jor avar sa(n)g thoree ||3||

I am joined with You, and I have broken with all others. ||3||

jh jh jwau qhw qyrI syvw ]

jeh jeh jaao thehaa thaeree saevaa ||

Wherever I go, there I serve You.

qum so Twkuru Aauru n dyvw ]4]

thum so t(h)aakur aour n dhaevaa ||4||

There is no other Lord Master than You, O Divine Lord. ||4||

qumry Bjn ktih jm PWsw ]

thumarae bhajan kattehi jam faa(n)saa ||

Meditating, vibrating upon You, the noose of death is cut away.

Bgiq hyq gwvY rivdwsw ]5]5]

bhagath haeth gaavai ravidhaasaa ||5||5||

To attain devotional worship, Ravi Daas sings to You, Lord. ||5||5||

[Khalsa4ever]

waheguru ji ka khalsa sri waheguru ji ki fateh

respected sanget ji kindly guide me abt ma problem ........coz m really screwed!!

m a gursikh boy(non amritdhari...but keeps all rehat)and in my college i have a frnd ..my junior....she is completely religious and obviously a complete sikh!!!! now my pro is dat i have developed some feelings for her which m lil hesitant to say coz i don kno eat her rxn ll be an i don wanna disturb her at all costs....an also i don wan myself go stray from my faith........so kindly clerify me dat wats d place of these feelings in our religion...

i shall be very thankfull to u

waheguru ji ka khalsa sri waheguru ji ki fateh

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Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

One step at a time veerjee. Remember no matter what you do to keep your rehat first, and put love second. That's not saying that they are incompatable, but just be sure that every action that you do stays in that order.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

[_K_]

i agree with khalsa4eva aslong as u keep rehat and dont get toooooo attached.."wordly attachment", "kaamm" etct

[Guest lowest of the low singhni]

wait till you're of marriageable age, and then get your parents to approach her family.