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ooo...getting married?! congratulations veerji! :lol: wow you must be nervous lol....well...if she's really into sikhi then just talk about things that have to do with sikhi....i guess most of those really long conversations start off with the most randomn and dumbest thing.....i know that's how they start for me lol....but yeah...just ask randomn things blush.gif ....ask about her hobbies or how her day's been and start making up some jokes and laugh and stuff like that=D....and welll....i guess that's all i can really think of....but don't worry...it'll all be fine! :| =D

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First of all Veer Ji, Congratulations! That really is good news.

If your having difficulties in finding things to talk to your wife to be about, try this... think of her as a friend. Ask her how her day went? Learn about her and her interests her likes and dislikes. Get to know her past, tell her some funny stories about your childhood and then listen to her funny experiences. Of course Sikhi should and will play an important part in your lifes but get to know each other, the way you would any other friend.

Friendship is the base of all successfull marriages andt he art of conversation will take you far, in 50 years time when you children are married and the grand kids grown up your conversation skills will be what will bind you and your wife together.

I wish you all the best for the next chapter in your life.

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First of all Veer Ji, Congratulations! That really is good news.

If your having difficulties in finding things to talk to your wife to be about, try this... think of her as a friend. Ask her how her day went? Learn about her and her interests her likes and dislikes. Get to know her past, tell her some funny stories about your childhood and then listen to her funny experiences. Of course Sikhi should and will play an important part in your lifes but get to know each other, the way you would any other friend.

Friendship is the base of all successfull marriages andt he art of conversation will take you far, in 50 years time when you children are married and the grand kids grown up your conversation skills will be what will bind you and your wife together.

But dont worry, you'll soon know everything about each other and will find it easy to talk to each other - you know when that'll happen because then you wont mind the silence between you!

I wish you all the best for the next chapter in your life.

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aaaaaaaw congratz veerjee....................im so girly i love it wen people get married.............so wen u posting out the invites to us guys on the phorum? :lol:

well............caht about general things, so you can get to knw her better...........her interests, hobbies, where she did her education etc......................what is her career................?

and dont forget to tell her things about urself so she can get to knw u

gud luck veerjee

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Everyone will be invited bibi :| .

and Barjinder Singh her name is Basant Kaur Phul-jhari tongue.gif aka Basanti.

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