Jump to content

Amritdharees Marrying Non Amritdharees


Recommended Posts

I read in Gurmat Rehat Maryada that " If a married person takes Amrit by themselves and their spouse is not Amritdharee, then he/she can not have a physical relationship with them unless they too become Amritdharee"

I thought this made sense so when i told someone whos going to take amrit soon there like thats right but what about so and so they just got married and hes amritdharee and shes not. The only answer i have is it's Kaljug. Sangat ji what are your views on this.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Replies 58
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

Guest Akirtghan
"you shouldnt so bad"

"but so and so does bad"

Thats the logic your friend is using. Why use someone else's example/mistake to justify yourself huna?

straight to the point. :TH:

you want to go up and fly in the sky, you look up at the birds flying in the sky, you dont look down on the ground n see ants crawling.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

gurmat will remian gurmat,even if only a few follow it, they will get the blessings of akaal purakh. . . you may have the whole of the world following someone, or sumthing else however, numbers dont matter, some sikhs may wear bana read bani and do abhiyaas simran, however if they have shanka and question our guru, they wont get many of his blessings.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

what if one is amrithari and teh other isnt shudnt the amrithari try encourage that person into sikhi? if the non-amrithari person is a decent human being and wishes to take amrit in the future but wants to adopt the lifestyle before becoming amrithari.............is it still wrong to get married before both r amrithari?

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........

Link to comment
Share on other sites

what if one is amrithari and teh other isnt shudnt the amrithari try encourage that person into sikhi? if the non-amrithari person is a decent human being and wishes to take amrit in the future but wants to adopt the lifestyle before becoming amrithari.............is it still wrong to get married before both r amrithari?

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........

your suppose to encourage your spouse to take amrit with you. Say 2 people are married and both are not amritdharee, if one wants to take amrit and goes to the amrit sanchar by himself/herself they punj piarey with give him/her amrit one condition that they will not keep a physical relationship with their partner until they too become amritdharee. The choice is yours it comes down to what rehat maryada you go by strict or whatever.

I think its a great thing if 2 people get married then they get amrit together the key is to get amrit together or alreayd be amritdharee be4 marriage.

bul chuk maaf carni(sor y if iv offended you or made any mistakes in the above statement)

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

forgive me im a murakh and if i offend the plz bhul chuck maaf carnah.........

your suppose to encourage your spouse to take amrit with you. Say 2 people are married and both are not amritdharee, if one wants to take amrit and goes to the amrit sanchar by himself/herself they punj piarey with give him/her amrit one condition that they will not keep a physical relationship with their partner until they too become amritdharee. The choice is yours it comes down to what rehat maryada you go by strict or whatever.

I think its a great thing if 2 people get married then they get amrit together the key is to get amrit together or alreayd be amritdharee be4 marriage.

bul chuk maaf carni(sor y if iv offended you or made any mistakes in the above statement)

I agree it is best your both amritdharis but i fink beta ur amritdhari b4 getin married as wen u gt married u becom married to maharaji as well da marriage will b more of a significance if ur already amritdhari!! well dats my opinion.

sorry if i offended ny1 :TH:

vaheguroo ji ka khalsa vaheguroo ji ki fateh

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share


  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • yeh it's true, we shouldn't be lazy and need to learn jhatka shikaar. It doesn't help some of grew up in surrounding areas like Slough and Southall where everyone thought it was super bad for amrit dharis to eat meat, and they were following Sant babas and jathas, and instead the Singhs should have been normalising jhatka just like the recent world war soldiers did. We are trying to rectifiy this and khalsa should learn jhatka.  But I am just writing about bhog for those that are still learning rehit. As I explained, there are all these negative influences in the panth that talk against rehit, but this shouldn't deter us from taking khanda pahul, no matter what level of rehit we are!
    • How is it going to help? The link is of a Sikh hunter. Fine, but what good does that do the lazy Sikh who ate khulla maas in a restaurant? By the way, for the OP, yes, it's against rehit to eat khulla maas.
    • Yeah, Sikhs should do bhog of food they eat. But the point of bhog is to only do bhog of food which is fit to be presented to Maharaj. It's not maryada to do bhog of khulla maas and pretend it's OK to eat. It's not. Come on, bro, you should know better than to bring this Sakhi into it. Is this Sikh in the restaurant accompanied by Guru Gobind Singh ji? Is he fighting a dharam yudh? Or is he merely filling his belly with the nearest restaurant?  Please don't make a mockery of our puratan Singhs' sacrifices by comparing them to lazy Sikhs who eat khulla maas.
    • Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
    • Instead of a 9 inch or larger kirpan, take a smaller kirpan and put it (without gatra) inside your smaller turban and tie the turban tightly. This keeps a kirpan on your person without interfering with the massage or alarming the masseuse. I'm not talking about a trinket but rather an actual small kirpan that fits in a sheath (you'll have to search to find one). As for ahem, "problems", you could get a male masseuse. I don't know where you are, but in most places there are professional masseuses who actually know what they are doing and can really relieve your muscle pains.
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use