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Bro the way i see it the female is the queen of the household, but once the house is broken down then the family and kids etc are messed up. We need to go back to the past social order of things but that cant be done with equal rights for womens bullsh*t. So the only way we can change things is exercise our right to go with non-punjabi sikh girls to bring decent gals into our community and in turn let the slags do what slags do and not let them let them have so much power over the future of generation of Sikhs.

After reading your proposals, which are quite amusing, I come to the following conclusion:

Majjh bhaich ke ghoree layee;

Dhudh peenho raye, lidh chaknee payee.

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bro, not all punjabi girls are "slaggish" and there Punjabi girls that do have loyalty towards our community. Also not all "khalsa" type of girls are saints. I understand where you're coming from with this issue though, but I think your solution to this problem is wrong. Also keep in mind that there are sikh guys that fool around a lot too.

Bro the way i see it the female is the queen of the household, but once the house is broken down then the family and kids etc are messed up. We need to go back to the past social order of things but that cant be done with equal rights for womens bullsh*t. So the only way we can change things is exercise our right to go with non-punjabi sikh girls to bring decent gals into our community and in turn let the slags do what slags do and not let them let them have so much power over the future of generation of Sikhs.

I will be setting up a website shorty i'll give you brothers the url and you can join. We need to make a change for the better.

Bro, like it or not, but you will always have sluts, thugs, good guys, good girls etc... in the community. Yes, you're right about how people take advantage of equal rights and justify them when doing some thing negative, but equality is part of the sikh belief.

As for your website, well send me the link. I am interested to see how many people will support your site.

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Bro, like it or not, but you will always have sluts, thugs, good guys, good girls etc... in the community. Yes, you're right about how people take advantage of equal rights and justify them when doing some thing negative, but equality is part of the sikh belief.

As for your website, well send me the link. I am interested to see how many people will support your site.

aite but i dont want u blaggering it about all over the place until its up and running properly. I know you post quite alot on desi forums so your contacts on there might come in handy.

I'll pm you more info soon

b-)

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Bro, like it or not, but you will always have sluts, thugs, good guys, good girls etc... in the community. Yes, you're right about how people take advantage of equal rights and justify them when doing some thing negative, but equality is part of the sikh belief.

As for your website, well send me the link. I am interested to see how many people will support your site.

aite but i dont want u blaggering it about all over the place until its up and running properly. I know you post quite alot on desi forums so your contacts on there might come in handy.

I'll pm you more info soon

b-)

:wub:

Are you a big fan of my posts on those desi forums?

Yeah, send me more info in my mailbox.

Peace.

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I'm thinking of setting up an organisation helping relationships leading to dating and marriage between Sikh guys (non-khalsa types) like me and non-sikh girls who in turn will become Sikhs once they married. This is help increase the Sikh population plus act as a counter balance to certain issues.

What is the measure by which 'girls' will be declared Sikh?

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Why do you want to increase numbers by marrying non sikh girls?

Setting an organisation grin.gif

The truth is we should set an organisation to convert all Punjabis to Khalsa :wub:

In the world numbers are significent but not all, Akal is evrything. Just read bani be a Sikh and then starts to do some seva for sikhi. What is the use of bringing other girls to sikhi which have love for boy but not for sikhi, It will simply encourage all sikh girls to marry foreigners. If you want to counter just educate our girls about sikhi.

Why to feel down for them who were not sikh.

Bringing the girls from other communities will lead to a lot of compromises not by you alone by that girl and above all our parents. If she has love for sikhi then it does not matter.

Thinking of myself marrying a Hindu girl, I will commit suicide on the same day. :wub:

The only thing to do is recite bani and leave evrything to Akal.

I definitely try to debate with punjabi Link, he is really good. Looking forward to discuss any topic with you.

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Forget them if they religious (khalsa types) then they will find appropriate Khalsa sikh guys. For us lot were stuck with slaggish kind these days. If Sikh punjabi gals (non-khalsa type) showed any loyality they wouldnt be going with non-sikh guys. So their view dont count as their reputation is already in gutter. So the way I see it we dont have any contraints any more and why should we stay loyal when in nature its known that men have more of a sexual desire and programmed to partner up and procreate with more than one female.

How about we make an effort to become the 'religious type' instead of encouraging non-Sikh behaviour? You already said that Khalsae are pretty much sorted when it comes to marriage. So why not work towards that? (Maybe not sorted but desperate in Papi's case lol.)

As for the part I've highlighted, ( :wub: )

"why should we stay loyal when in nature its known that men have more of a sexual desire and programmed to partner up and procreate with more than one female"

Do you know what nature is? People thesedays tell us that having kes under our arms is unnatural for a woman. It sounds like you know better than God's will. Guru Saheb laid down our path for us, and now we're saying it's unnatural? Just because other people live differently doesn't make the norm right. Yes we all have the panj chor inside us, but why are you encouraging us to feed those vices? If a Singh is suffering from the effects of kaam, encourage him as per Gurmat, not as per 'hey buddy it's natural, sleep around as much as you like'.

Set an example, be an inspiration to others.. have some *faith* in Guru Saheb!!!!! :wub: Why are we using our own mat so much nowadays? I don't know what else to say.

Gurbani's classification of a Sikh is in the shabad gursatgurkajosikhakhaaye on Ang 305 of Guru Granth Sahib Ji. It's explicit. So should there really a difference between a 'Sikh (non-religious type)' and 'Sikh (religious-type)'? Just be a Sikh man, why are we creating further differences.

This paragraph has created two tiers of Sikhs.

Forget them if they religious (khalsa types) then they will find appropriate Khalsa sikh guys. For us lot were stuck with slaggish kind these days. If Sikh punjabi gals (non-khalsa type) showed any loyality they wouldnt be going with non-sikh guys.

Follow Gurmat, use Gurbani, encourage others to do the same.

That and what ocelot said above. ^

(Sorry if this sounds too blunt/harsh. Didn't mean to offend anyone as such.)

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lol............i found this thread sooooo amusing man

So if ur not a "khalsa" girl ur a slaggish one rite.....................so im not a khalsa girl cos i have not taken amirt so do i fall into the slaggish category? ohmy.gif :wub:

This shows how very little we "sikhs" knw about our own faith and culture..................we become so obbsessed with finding "tru love" when we dont even understand the concept of it.........

What is Tru Love? do u realy think u can experience this with a person.....................how many people here know and have expereience true love with someone?

Love is a feeling, a pressence and im my humble opinion is only "felt" with waheguru.................is love with a physical being love when they do no accompany u inth the next world?

i feel this "non sikh" dating agency is furthur segregating our sikhi and basically saying "hey, if you dont wanna become amrithari, no worries come see and we'll hook u up..........."

as lowest of the lowest singhni pehnjee sed...............we shud be looking at ways to bring the lost youth of today back to their roots of sikhi...........not finding ways to justify wot is blatatly wrong.......

bhul chuck maafi if i offend anyone

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