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Just get married

I ALREADY HAVE MANY RISHTEY COMING TO ME. BUT AS I AM STILL STUDYING, MY PARENTS SAY NOT TILL ANOTHER FEW YEARS. IM HAPPY WITH THAT. I WANT TO MARRY THE ONE I LOVE!!

CANT I?? :) HE ALSO WANTS TO MARRY ME. HIS FAMILY KNOW ABOUT ME... JUST MY SIDE THAT NEED TO FIND OUT. YET.... SO PLEASE HELP!!!

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Are you making a joke uot of my situation Clearly you have not been in love then! PLease. Im being serious. his is no laughing joke. Please.
Easy sis, chill, just trying to cheer you up. Forgive the humor which crosses limits at times. And lets not talk about me being in love rolleyes.gif . Honestly, on a Sikh forum what responses are you expecting? Both of you should tell your parents and then they should talk to each other. If the parents are fine then send us an invitation card to your wedding and then the wedding pics. If not, then move on with life because life is too short and not worth crying over someone forever.

Not sure if suggesting Gurbani would mean anything, but in case this makes sense, here goes: "If you love someone and they come to you, they are yours. If they don't, they never were".

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If you truly love this person, then get married to him. Then there will be no problems. tell your parents im sure they'l be happy that you've told them. If marriage is not an option, then why waste your time with some1 where there is no future? Eventually this will just lead to a broken heart, i can guarantee that.

people on here are laughing, but they have never been in a situation like yours. They are lucky that god has blessed them so that they have not been tempted to get into a relationship. so please, i humbly ask all of those people to stop making fun because god has a different path for each of us, and some are just less fortunate to fall in love with another person. i myself have been in love and probably am still in love with someone, but all we can hope for is that god puts us on the right path and keeps us by his side.

im sorry if ive offended anyone

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ASK MAHARAJ

ASk MAHARAJ

ASK MAHARAJ

ASK MAHARAJ

ASK MAHARAJ

prolly the best advice i can give

stop over what maharaj ji says, or what u guys think he says

often times, the answer is personal, not a matter of panthic rehit, but internal rehit, or sumthin like that

JUS ASK MAHARAJ

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HIS FAMILY KNOW ABOUT ME... JUST MY SIDE THAT NEED TO FIND OUT. YET.... SO PLEASE HELP!!!
We can help and make your life easier. Send a private message to the admins/mods of this forum, and give your details, like name, address, your dad's contact number, and they will call him up and talk to him. Your problem is telling your parents, right? This is the only way we can help.

Ohde baad jo howega, ohde lei asi ni jummevaar.

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people on here are laughing, but they have never been in a situation like yours. They are lucky that god has blessed them so that they have not been tempted to get into a relationship. so please, i humbly ask all of those people to stop making fun because god has a different path for each of us, and some are just less fortunate to fall in love with another person. i myself have been in love and probably am still in love with someone, but all we can hope for is that god puts us on the right path and keeps us by his side.

You are partially right veeray, but we are not laughing at her, atleast I am not. I just find it funny that people do things that obviously have nothing to do with Sikhi, yet they post on a Sikh forum asking for advice, so what do we do? Loving is human, she should tell her parents like he has told his parents. She says her mom isn't strict which is good. Why is she hesitant then? Just tell parents on both sides and sort the matter out. If they don't agree, then I am not sure what to suggest.

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