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my Small sister is 5 she is in nursay and she has to go to school. BUT my sister is a bit slow in lerarning and makeing frindes and she dose not talk to alot of people and the docter has said that she should stay in nursury 1 more year but we were so confused we done ardas and put 2 letters in a bag and picked 1 it came for school so i told my mum for school and have faith in Vahegurooo ji and every thing would be fine but the docter says no and my mum is confused so what the sangat says we will do so we need to know by tommorow morning by 9.00AM so we can tell the school.

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VAHEGUROOOJIKAKHALSAVAHEGUROOOJIKIFATHE

MY mates post no replys so had to post again sorry

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Does she have a medical condition. If not then then don't listen to the doctor.

I was a shy kid when I went to school. It was because I actually didn't know any english. I only learnt english when I was about 6 years old. Basically I was born in England but no one spoke English in our house as my parents only spoke Punjabi. We did not have a TV etc so there was no one I could learn from. Also I was the eldest child and anyone who came over spoke Punjabi.

I still went to school and I remember being the dumb lonely kid. I guess they could have held me back aswell...I think the teachers thought of doing that....but my mum did not allow it. Eventually I picked the language up and it was an amazing transformation. I suddenly became the bright one.

Now I study medicine at a top univeristy. No one would have ever guessed but thats because people fail to realise that intelligence is not which language you speak ie just because I did not know English it does not mean my parents or I were dumb.

In my opinion find out why she is slow at learning. Get her tuition and build her skills. This is just me rambling.....maybe if you can tell us an exact medical reason for why the dr said to repeat nursery??

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Does she have a medical condition. If not then then don't listen to the doctor.

I was a shy kid when I went to school. It was because I actually didn't know any english. I only learnt english when I was about 6 years old. Basically I was born in England but no one spoke English in our house as my parents only spoke Punjabi. We did not have a TV etc so there was no one I could learn from. Also I was the eldest child and anyone who came over spoke Punjabi.

I still went to school and I remember being the dumb lonely kid. I guess they could have held me back aswell...I think the teachers thought of doing that....but my mum did not allow it. Eventually I picked the language up and it was an amazing transformation. I suddenly became the bright one.

Now I study medicine at a top univeristy. No one would have ever guessed but thats because people fail to realise that intelligence is not which language you speak ie just because I did not know English it does not mean my parents or I were dumb.

In my opinion find out why she is slow at learning. Get her tuition and build her skills. This is just me rambling.....maybe if you can tell us an exact medical reason for why the dr said to repeat nursery??

Hi,

I'm really happy you've done so well. But as a medic may I suggest you read the developmental chapter in any good paeds text book (Lissauer is good) and then reflect on the advice you just gave above.

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Hi s8220. I understand what you are saying but reality is not black and white. From my experience it did not hinder my social development by having a temporary language barrier for a year. In fact I feel it was advantageous as I pick up languages very fast and it has left me more in tune with body language and non verbal clues. (A skill which adults seem to lose).

Also in regards to psychological effects - I have no recollection of feelings. I was so young that I only have a vague memory of my mother saying I have to learn English and so she paid for a private teacher. Again I ramble. In my experience unless there is an actual *more* serious reason then I don't think a child should be held back for only being shy. (Do we have anymore information, were any tests done to establish a learning difficulty?)

Now to a minor point - I am not going to retract anything I said in this post or in the previous one especially as I shared a personal experience and an opinion of what my family and I went through. Hope thats clear. :)

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SANGAT JI

my Small sister is 5 she is in nursay and she has to go to school. BUT my sister is a bit slow in lerarning and makeing frindes and she dose not talk to alot of people and the docter has said that she should stay in nursury 1 more year but we were so confused we done ardas and put 2 letters in a bag and picked 1 it came for school so i told my mum for school and have faith in Vahegurooo ji and every thing would be fine but the docter says no and my mum is confused so what the sangat says we will do so we need to know by tommorow morning by 9.00AM so we can tell the school.

THANKS

plz reply

VAHEGUROOOJIKAKHALSAVAHEGUROOOJIKIFATHE

veer ji don't worry

plz do everyday path of JAP JI SAHIB JI, sit your sister close to you

let her into GOLDEN TEMPLE amritsar punjab india..

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