Marriage

[buddasingh]

tell them that you don't want to ever get married, that should get things moving and you stay true to your shyness.

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tell them that you don't want to ever get married, that should get things moving and you stay true to your shyness.

But he wants to get married! Basically i would just hint it out by talkin about maybe a friend or a relative that is getting married and how it is really nice. they would soon get the hint that way.

or their is the other way which is just to say it to one of your parents in alot of cases mum but it depends which you are closest with and get them to mention it to the other parent!

Good Luck :TH:

[Guest Original Poster]

Wow, I envy you...do you live in a Panjabi family? Because its rare to find Panjabi parents not nagging their kids to get married. My mom has been on my case for a while, she always says "ve viyah karva leh kaka"...and then jokingly she says in a worrysome tone "haarha, tere naal koi viyah vee karalooga? Akall ta tainu bhora nahi !" (will anyone even dare agree to marry you? You have no sense of wisdom!)

But I'd carefully approach them with the topic of perhaps asking within their circle of friends if they know of any suitable match for you, that is if you opt for the traditional way. In either case, just casually bring up the topic that you're considering getting married and settling down to raise a family.

yes! im from a punjabi family and that makes things even more weirder that they have never brought up the issue. I think I should go to a relative and ask them to talk to my parents.