If Engaged

[akal sahai]

can a singh and singhnee who are engaged go out together i.e. shopping etc??

normally it does not look good when a singh and singhnee who are not related go out together, basically if they where friends or something. but if they where engaged would it still be looked down on........... vichaaaar :umm:

[singhni wannabe]

I would say it should deffo be avoided.

Even though you are 'engaged' you're not married, so it still doesnt look nice you two going out together.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff.

[ISingh]

Vaheguroo Jee Ka Khalsaa! Vaheguroo Jee Ki Fatheh!

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff.

If you do feel the need to meet/converse, do so about Guru Sahib! That can be done through Gurmat Veechar or doing Keertan/Paath together.

Hope that doesn't sound too extreme. =)

Vaheguroo Jee Ka Khalsaa! Vaheguroo Jee Ki Fatheh!

[Jai Tegang!]

Just get married!!

I think engagements should be quickly followed by marriage. I mean, what are people waiting for, a better deal?

This way you have none of this "can i do this can i do that".

Anyway, coming to the original question, I would say don't interact with each other too much. You're not married yet, so don't pretend you are.

May sound harsh, but it's the truthful non pc/liberal answer we all know deep down.

Kaam can beat the c ra p out of anyone, so don't stir the hornet's nest.

Kaam can be so subtle that you might think you're talking about sikhi or doing 'veechar", but really you're extracting vishay rass interacting with the other person.

[akal sahai]

I would say it should deffo be avoided.

Even though you are 'engaged' you're not married, so it still doesnt look nice you two going out together.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff

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and how do you help each other without meeting each other

[singhni wannabe]

I would say it should deffo be avoided.

Even though you are 'engaged' you're not married, so it still doesnt look nice you two going out together.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff

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and how do you help each other without meeting each other

talking?

[Gurmat Sangeet]

I would say it should deffo be avoided.

Even though you are 'engaged' you're not married, so it still doesnt look nice you two going out together.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff.

try and help each other progress in your sikhi before the anand karaj, instead of useless stuff

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and how do you help each other without meeting each other

talking?

some of the replies in this thread are soooooooooooooooo funny

why dont you both do this to please these people

both of u wear burkhe and go shopping

[akal sahai]

phone realtionship.......

[vikramjitsingh]

Fateh Ji,

Nothing wrong if they go to together. Shop, talk , have a meal or go to a movie. And top this by going to the Gurudwara together.

Please don't mind another piece of advice..... engagement period should be as less as possible. I've seen that elongated engagements just create problems.

Guru Rakha

[S1ngh]

Depend on whats on their mind..