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8. If you have a Non-Indian passport then get married to an Indian girl-whose father will assist you financially to start some work.
:6 In the 5 or so years I have been visiting this forum, stupidity of some posts still amazes me. Someone should smack you for saying that!

Where there is will, there is way ! :p

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8. If you have a Non-Indian passport then get married to an Indian girl-whose father will assist you financially to start some work.
:6 In the 5 or so years I have been visiting this forum, stupidity of some posts still amazes me. Someone should smack you for saying that!

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!!!! im sorry but i have to agree with this guest lol.. if indian kurria do it to us uk mundeh.... why cant we do the same????

again LOL @ post!!!

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Out of my 8 suggestions, the last one has proved to be most popular & Thought Provoking !

I will try to be elaborate for the benefit of the readers.

Honestly in society,

Bhookhe-Nange nu NA koi kurri denda heh, NA lenda heh.

English Translation - Nobody gives his or her daughter to Starving-Naked guy and likewise nobody accept's a daughter-in-law of such status.

In addition no girl from a respectable & well-off background likes to start a relationship with a penny-less guy.

There are very few Genuine people who recognise, understand and admit to this reality. So they are open, honest & practical about Give & Take in arranging their child's marriage.

Rest are fooling themselves or trying to fool others.

Time & time again i have said "what is stopping a person from marrying an orphan or poor girl or guy ?"

Thing is, if parents want to settle their kids ON TIME i.e getting them married, then they have to provide support !

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P.S - i hope moderators post this reply in proper order and on time, not inbetween other replies after one week, for example

Everyone must have heard "Love is blind".

So when in love; caste, class, religion etc aspects don't really matter.

Same thing applies to "Kaam".

ਛਿਵੈ ਕਾਮੁ ਨ ਪੁਛੈ ਜਾਤਿ ॥

छिवै कामु न पुछै जाति ॥

Cẖẖivai kām na pucẖẖai jāṯ.

sixth, in his sexual desire, he does not respect social customs.

Source: http://www.srigranth.org/servlet/gurbani.gurbani?Action=Page&g=1&h=1&r=1&t=1&p=0&k=0&Param=137

Long time back i heard a Katha by Sant Singh ji Maskeen where he mentioned why the system of "Swayamvar" i.e (girl finding her own husband) FAILED. The practice was discontinued as things started to get ugly after marriage due to incompatibility.

So going for an Arranged Marriage is still the best option in the long run.

AND

Just wanted to make a POINT, you can call it a public interest post.

Am glad that it made you laugh but don't forget the real message "Arranged Marriage"

What is good for others, is good for U too !

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