How To Control Kaam

[singhgsingh]

tittle says it all

[K. SINGH DEEP]

We can do only Ardaas to WAHEGURU to save ourselvesfrom

all the five vikaars i.e. Kaam ,Krodh ,Lobh ,Moh and Ahankaar.

But Guru Gobid Singh Ji added another in these five and says:-

ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਹੰਕਾਰ ਲੋਭ ਹਠ ਮੋਹ ਨ ਮਨ ਸੋ ਲਯਾਵੈ ॥

Kaam krodh hankaar lobh hath moh na man so lyaavai ||

ਤਬ ਹੀ ਆਤਮ ਤਤ ਕੋ ਦਰਸੇ ਪਰਮ ਪੁਰਖ ਕਹ ਪਾਵੈ ॥੩॥੧॥

Tab hiaatam tat ko dares param purakh kah paavai||3||1||

(Ramkali Patshahi 10 th in SHABAD HAZARE IN DASAM GRANTH JI)

ਅਕਾਲ ਉਸਤਤ

Akaal Ustat

EULOGY OF THE NON-TEMPORAL LORD

ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥

Ik Oankaar Sat(i)gur Prasaadh||

The Lord is One and he can be attained through the grace of the True Guru.

ਉਤਾਰ ਖਾਸੇ ਦਸਖਤ ਕਾ ॥ ਪਾਤਿਸਾਹੀ ੧੦॥

Utaar khaase daskhat kaa|| Patishaahoo 10||

Copy of the manuscript with exclusive signature of 10th lord

ਅਕਾਲ ਪੁਰਖ ਕੀ ਰਛਾ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Akaal purakh kee rachhaa hamnai||

The non-temporal Purusha (All-Pervading Lord) is my Protector.

ਸਰਬ ਲੋਹ ਦੀ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab loh dee rachhiaa hamnai||

The All-Steel Lord is my Protector.

ਸਰਬ ਕਾਲ ਜੀ ਦੀ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab kaal jee dee rachhiaa hamnai||

The All-Destroying Lord is my protector.

ਸਰਬ ਲੋਹ ਜੀ ਦੀ ਸਦਾ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab loh jee dee sadaa racchiaa hamnai||

The All-Steel Lord is ever my Protector.

[ladli-fauj]

We can do only Ardaas to WAHEGURU to save ourselvesfrom

all the five vikaars i.e. Kaam ,Krodh ,Lobh ,Moh and Ahankaar.

But Guru Gobid Singh Ji added another in these five and says:-

ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਹੰਕਾਰ ਲੋਭ ਹਠ ਮੋਹ ਨ ਮਨ ਸੋ ਲਯਾਵੈ ॥

Kaam krodh hankaar lobh hath moh na man so lyaavai ||

ਤਬ ਹੀ ਆਤਮ ਤਤ ਕੋ ਦਰਸੇ ਪਰਮ ਪੁਰਖ ਕਹ ਪਾਵੈ ॥੩॥੧॥

Tab hiaatam tat ko dares param purakh kah paavai||3||1||

(Ramkali Patshahi 10 th in SHABAD HAZARE IN DASAM GRANTH JI)

ਅਕਾਲ ਉਸਤਤ

Akaal Ustat

EULOGY OF THE NON-TEMPORAL LORD

ੴ ਸਤਿਗੁਰ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦਿ ॥

Ik Oankaar Sat(i)gur Prasaadh||

The Lord is One and he can be attained through the grace of the True Guru.

ਉਤਾਰ ਖਾਸੇ ਦਸਖਤ ਕਾ ॥ ਪਾਤਿਸਾਹੀ ੧੦॥

Utaar khaase daskhat kaa|| Patishaahoo 10||

Copy of the manuscript with exclusive signature of 10th lord

ਅਕਾਲ ਪੁਰਖ ਕੀ ਰਛਾ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Akaal purakh kee rachhaa hamnai||

The non-temporal Purusha (All-Pervading Lord) is my Protector.

ਸਰਬ ਲੋਹ ਦੀ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab loh dee rachhiaa hamnai||

The All-Steel Lord is my Protector.

ਸਰਬ ਕਾਲ ਜੀ ਦੀ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab kaal jee dee rachhiaa hamnai||

The All-Destroying Lord is my protector.

ਸਰਬ ਲੋਹ ਜੀ ਦੀ ਸਦਾ ਰਛਿਆ ਹਮਨੈ ॥

Sarab loh jee dee sadaa racchiaa hamnai||

The All-Steel Lord is ever my Protector.

Very Nice Post, Didn't Know Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji added another, thanks. But I would say when kaam comes into place in your life think of something else or do something else quickly thats how most people get rid of all the 5 vikaars. Twitch around fast or start doing Naam Simran of waheguru.

[K. SINGH DEEP]

tittle says it all

ਧਾਵਉ ਦਸਾ ਅਨੇਕ ਪ੍ਰੇਮ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਕਾਰਣੇ ॥

Dhhaavo dhasaa anaek praem prabh kaaranae ||

I run around in all directions, searching for the love of God.

ਪੰਚ ਸਤਾਵਹਿ ਦੂਤ ਕਵਨ ਬਿਧਿ ਮਾਰਣੇ ॥

Panch sathaavehi dhooth kavan bidhh maaranae ||

The five evil enemies are tormenting me; how can I destroy them?

ਤੀਖਣ ਬਾਣ ਚਲਾਇ ਨਾਮੁ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਧ੍ਯ੍ਯਾਈਐ ॥

Theekhan baan chalaae naam prabh dhhyaaeeai ||

Shoot them with the sharp arrows of meditation on the Name of God.

ਹਰਿਹਾਂ ਮਹਾਂ ਬਿਖਾਦੀ ਘਾਤ ਪੂਰਨ ਗੁਰੁ ਪਾਈਐ ॥੧੬॥

Harihaan mehaan bikhaadhee ghaath pooran gur paaeeai ||16||

O Lord! The way to slaughter these terrible sadistic enemies is

obtained from the Perfect Guru. ||16||

(Funeh Mehla 5 at 1363 of sri Guru Granth Sahib ji)

Salok Sehaskritee Guru Arjan Dev at1358

ਹੇ ਕਾਮੰ ਨਰਕ ਬਿਸ੍ਰਾਮੰ ਬਹੁ ਜੋਨੀ ਭ੍ਰਮਾਵਣਹ ॥

Hae kaaman narak bisraaman bahu jonee bhramaavaneh ||

O sexual desire, you lead the mortals to hell; you make them

wander in reincarnation through countless species.

ਚਿਤ ਹਰਣੰ ਤ੍ਰੈ ਲੋਕ ਗੰਮ੍ਯ੍ਯੰ ਜਪ ਤਪ ਸੀਲ ਬਿਦਾਰਣਹ ॥

chith haranan thrai lok ganmyan jap thap seel bidhaaraneh ||

You cheat the consciousness, and pervade the three worlds.

You destroy meditation, penance and virtue.

ਅਲਪ ਸੁਖ ਅਵਿਤ ਚੰਚਲ ਊਚ ਨੀਚ ਸਮਾਵਣਹ ॥

alap sukh avith chanchal ooch neech samaavaneh ||

But you give only shallow pleasure, while you make the mortals

weak and unsteady; you pervade the high and the low.

ਤਵ ਭੈ ਬਿਮੁੰਚਿਤ ਸਾਧ ਸੰਗਮ ਓਟ ਨਾਨਕ ਨਾਰਾਇਣਹ ॥੪੬॥

thav bhai bimunchith saadhh sangam outt naanak naaraaeineh ||46||

Your fear is dispelled in the Saadh Sangat, the Company of the Holy,

O Nanak, through the Protection and Support of the Lord. ||46||

ਬਸੰਤੁ ਮਹਲਾ ੯ ॥ ( at 1186 Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji)

basanth mehalaa 9 ||

Basant, Ninth Mehl:

ਪਾਪੀ ਹੀਐ ਮੈ ਕਾਮੁ ਬਸਾਇ ॥

Paapee heeai mai kaam basaae ||

The heart of the sinner is filled with unfulfilled sexual desire.

ਮਨੁ ਚੰਚਲੁ ਯਾ ਤੇ ਗਹਿਓ ਨ ਜਾਇ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

Manu chanchal yaa thae gehiou n jaae ||1|| rehaao ||

He cannot control his fickle mind. ||1||Pause||

ਜੋਗੀ ਜੰਗਮ ਅਰੁ ਸੰਨਿਆਸ ॥

Jogee jangam ar sanniaas ||

The Yogis, wandering ascetics and renunciates

ਸਭ ਹੀ ਪਰਿ ਡਾਰੀ ਇਹ ਫਾਸ ॥੧॥

Sabh hee par ddaaree eih faas ||1||

- this net is cast over them all. ||1||

ਜਿਹਿ ਜਿਹਿ ਹਰਿ ਕੋ ਨਾਮੁ ਸਮ੍ਹ੍ਹਾਰਿ ॥

jihi jihi har ko naam samhaar ||

Those who contemplate the Name of the Lord

ਤੇ ਭਵ ਸਾਗਰ ਉਤਰੇ ਪਾਰਿ ॥੨॥

thae bhav saagar outharae paar ||2||

cross over the terrifying world-ocean. ||2||

ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਹਰਿ ਕੀ ਸਰਨਾਇ ॥

jan naanak har kee saranaae ||

Servant Nanak seeks the Sanctuary of the Lord.

ਦੀਜੈ ਨਾਮੁ ਰਹੈ ਗੁਨ ਗਾਇ ॥੩॥੨॥

Deejai naam rehai gun gaae ||3||2||

Please bestow the blessing of Your Name, that he may

continue to sing Your Glorious Praises. ||3||2||

[KhalsaRaj 89]

i read sumwhere that the trick to the panj chor is that, you recognize them when you experience them, so like when you experience kaam, you realise that 'yep im experiencing kaam' then, that is when bani like those posted by veers above have the proper affect on you.

lastly, im sure this topics come up before= search for it

[singhgsingh]

thank you everyone

and sorry will search next time

[KhalsaRaj 89]

LOL don't apologize, it was just a suggestion

[K. SINGH DEEP]

LOL don't apologize, it was just a suggestion

My dear child,

this is a Sangat Forum and not a FRIENDSHIP FORUM. So

I request all the Sikh sangat members to please avoid adressing any

body like "LOL" or some bad name rather we should use words like

Bhaa ji , Veer ji , Bhaee sahib ji, Sister , Bhen ji etc. becoz while in

Sangat Forum , we should not forget that Guru Gobind Singh ji Maharaj

has told us:-

Khalsa mero roop he khaas ,

Khalse meh hau karau niwaas,

Khalsa mero sajjan soora,

Khalsa mero Satgur poora.

Bhul chuk khima WJKK WJKF

[KhalsaRaj 89]

okay veerji next time i will

bdw

LOL- do you know what that means yeah? its not a bad name

[jassa]

singh let me get very clear to for ur answer how to control kaam ... you cant control it till u understand ... from my personal experience though i havent controlled it yet but what i have learned ... the more u supress it the more it will burst the more u ignore it the more it will come in ur mind ... understand it and u will get the key to control it at ur wish ...

search youtube with keywords "maskeen kaam" and u will get maskeen jis katha on kaam and read it 10 - 12 - 15 - 20 times again and again till u can recall it at ur will ...