What Does Gurbani Says About Having Inappropriate Relations Before Marriage?

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Can anyone tell me what does gurbani says about having inappropriate relations before marriage. Someone asked me about this but me paapi wasnot able to answer this. So please help me with it?

[Guest mehtab1singh]

ibnw AnMd ibvwh qy Bugqy pr kI joie ] sux isKw gur kih Q~ky myrw isK n soie ]25]

binaa ana(n)dh bivaah thae bhugathae par kee joe || sun sikhaa gur kehi thhaakae maeraa sikh n soe ||25||

Without having Anand Karaj those who have sexual relationships. Listen O' Sikh the Guru states, he is not my Sikh.

-Rehatnama Mukhthnama

[KartaPurkhS]

That seems pretty clear!

[MokhamSingh]

WAHEGURUJIKAKHALSAWAHEGURUJIKEFATEH.

In Gurbani and other Sikh scriptures the words" Apna and Prayha" are used to describe sexual conduct and sexual misconduct. The word "Apna" means "one's own",and conversley,the word "Prayha"means "other than one's own". Sexual conduct or desires with prayha are totally frowned upon in Gurbani. Since pre-marital sex would be with a prayha,hence it is not acceptable. In the same way extra-marital sex would be with a prayha too.

We have a story of Bhai Joga Singh who almost fell into pre-marital temptation. Sri Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharajh formed the roop of a pehradaar(guard) and persuaded Joga Singh to refrain from such activity.