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[Guest --gupt--]

Guru pyari sadha sangat ji

Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh!

As we grow up there is lots of responsibilty and pressure.I get angry in small small things,i am very possesive from nature and waste time in tension.

I get irritated with my nature and get angry.I am not good in anything except chanting god name and caring parents.I am doing post graduation.Life had become so busy.I am unable to enjoy kirtan when ever i do patha mann vicha tension rehandi padana hai padana hai.

I love doing riaz in harmonium for that also i don't get time.

My parents are very cooperative.That's why i don't have habit of managing kitchen and study.I just study.

But now when i have my collage test.My mom is busy so i made chapati by my own but there was anger inside me that my time is getting wasted this anger i have also shown to my mom.Because i am not intelligent.My mom knows that i don't take class test seriously that's why she was taking light but some test i take seriously like for the teacher who is strict or who believes in me.See i have test tomm. then also wanna talk to sadha sangat and posting this topic so that i can get relax.

I am unable to handle both.

Plz woman's share u'r experiences how u manage house and job.

I wanna make my parents happy but care is not all thing,money is also required.Also money is not all thing,care is also required.

How to manage both?

The man's and woman's who are working they know now the pressure,tension is so much in life.

Bul chuk mafa!

Thanks in advance.

[Matheen]

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

Write down how much time you spend doing each of the days activities - as a list, including how many hours you sleep. You probably just need better planning.

You MUST take time out for Simran and Paath, and forget about the world when you do. Simran and reading Gurbani is the only way to control anger, it will make you realise that everything is in Waheguru's hands so nothing to get angry about.

Food cooked while you're angry is poison!

[Guest Guest]

The Secret

One day, one friend asked another,

"How is it that you are always so happy?

You have so much energy,

and you never seem to get down."

With her eyes smiling, she said,

"I know the Secret!"

"What secret is that?"

To which she replied,

"I'll tell you all about it,

but you have to promise to

share the Secret with others."

"The Secret is this:

I have learned there is little I can do in my life that will make me truly happy.

I must depend on Waheguru to make me happy and to meet my needs.

When a need arises in my life, I have to trust Waheguru to supply according to HIS riches.

I have learned most of the time I don't need half of what I think I do.

He has never let me down.

Since I learned that 'Secret', I am happy."

The questioner's first thought was,

"That's too simple!"

But upon reflecting over her own life she recalled how she thought a bigger house

would make her happy, but it didn't !

She thought a better paying job would make her happy, but it hadn't.

When did she realize her greatest happiness?

Sitting on the floor with her grandchildren, playing games, eating pizza or reading a story,

a simple gift from Waheguru.

Now you know it too !

We can't depend on people to make us happy.

Only Waheguru in His infinite wisdom can do that.

Trust Waheguru!

And now I pass the Secret on to you !

So once you get it, what will you do ?

YOU have to tell someone the Secret, too !

That Waheguru in His wisdom will take care of YOU !

But it's not really a secret...

We just have to believe it and do it...

Really trust Waheguru !

In everything you do, put Waheguru first !

Waheguru will direct you and crown your effort with success.

(Author Unknown)