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the best source i know that has in detail of what an amritdharee anand karaj is suppose to be like,

http://gursevak.com/punjsanskar.html

its a online pothi written in gurmukhi but easy to understand , if u have hard time reading punjabi u can listen to the recoridngs

"Section 4: Details the marriage ceremony for Gurmukhs."

In a Amritdhari Anadkaraj u can say its much more simpler than the average punjabi wedding, which means

amrit dhari weddings focus on the anand karaj and not on the reception,,

If the couple is amritdhari most ppl dont have a reception they have a kirtan in the evening on the day of the wedding ,,

sum have a dinner type thing the next day like a family function,,

the bride wont have jewelery or maek-up overdose, but a fancy suit or simple chola

so if u cut out all the hindi traditions_wearing red langa, wearing chooreea (red braclets), bindi, other random cultural stuff

u get a pure Sikh Wedding

;)

I havent seen amritdarees doing the maiya ceremony putting basan stuff on the couple face which is basically a desi facial and no lady sangeets and bhangra shangra and no dayn layn, like giving everyone suits and giving the bride a ton of gold soo Pure Sikh Wedding is the way to go, Pure money save!

bhul cuk maffi ji

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

You should locate the video of that particular Anand Karaj.

Frankly you must understand that some things we can control, not all.

Looking at the above picture, i can see flower decorations in Darbar.

Now read the Shabad below

http://www.sikhitothemax.com/page.asp?ShabadID=1781

So who is responsible ?

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

You should locate the video of that particular Anand Karaj.

Frankly you must understand that some things we can control, not all.

Looking at the above picture, i can see flower decorations in Darbar.

Now read the Shabad below

http://www.sikhitoth...p?ShabadID=1781

So who is responsible ?

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

And yes you don't understand the shabad, which you present the link too. Satguru Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji is not lifeless or an idol. Satguru is living. Can't you see the shabad now, can't you hear the shabad, can you feel the shabad, can't you taste the shabad.

Also by your thinking, in which you want to misintrepret the shabad then you should not walk on grass, don't you know the grass is alive, it feels, it breathes and the ants and bugs that are living on the grass are being killed by your shoe. Don't you know there is life in that grass. You are a BUTCHER, but you call yourself a brahmin, holiest of all? biggrin.gif

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the best source i know that has in detail of what an amritdharee anand karaj is suppose to be like,

http://gursevak.com/punjsanskar.html

its a online pothi written in gurmukhi but easy to understand , if u have hard time reading punjabi u can listen to the recoridngs

"Section 4: Details the marriage ceremony for Gurmukhs."

In a Amritdhari Anadkaraj u can say its much more simpler than the average punjabi wedding, which means

amrit dhari weddings focus on the anand karaj and not on the reception,,

If the couple is amritdhari most ppl dont have a reception they have a kirtan in the evening on the day of the wedding ,,

sum have a dinner type thing the next day like a family function,,

the bride wont have jewelery or maek-up overdose, but a fancy suit or simple chola

so if u cut out all the hindi traditions_wearing red langa, wearing chooreea (red braclets), bindi, other random cultural stuff

u get a pure Sikh Wedding

wink.gif

I havent seen amritdarees doing the maiya ceremony putting basan stuff on the couple face which is basically a desi facial and no lady sangeets and bhangra shangra and no dayn layn, like giving everyone suits and giving the bride a ton of gold soo Pure Sikh Wedding is the way to go, Pure money save!

bhul cuk maffi ji

GurFateh Ji x

yeh thats fine... thank for hlping!!=D

GurFateh Ji x

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

You should locate the video of that particular Anand Karaj.

Frankly you must understand that some things we can control, not all.

Looking at the above picture, i can see flower decorations in Darbar.

Now read the Shabad below

http://www.sikhitoth...p?ShabadID=1781

So who is responsible ?

Waheguru ji ka khalsa

Waheguru ji ki fateh

GurFateh Ji x

yeh thats fine... thank for hlping!!=D

GurFateh Ji x

Sorry guest not sure what you are saying , are you saying that it is wrong to have flowers in darbar sahib because the shabad you quoted ?

GurFateh Ji x

yeh thats fine... thank for hlping!!=D

GurFateh Ji x

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Maybe the best people to ask would be the people who have done a Sikh wedding like those in th epic and find out what they thought went well, what they would change next time etc.

I personally understand that its supposed to be a simple affair focussing on real meanings rather than the superficial display of gold, clothes (that you will never wear again), lots of guests (half who you don't know) etc.

So a sikh wedding would be the opposite - ie a gathering of satsangat, close family and friends done in simple manner focussing more on Guru and Bani.

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa!! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!!

How Does An Amritdhari Wedding Happen?

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