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She needs professional help if her depression is as bad as you describe. Encourage her to speak to her GP who should be able to put her in contact with a counsellor or therapist. At some point she, or you on her behalf if things get bad, is going to have to explain the situation to her parents so that she has the support of her family.

Give her the contact details for the Samaritans also if you feel she is seriously considering suicide. She can call them at any time of the day or night.

It's great that you are helping her, but dealing with mental illness often requires professionals, and it can take its toll on those who are personally involved with someone with mental illness, so make sure that you are taking care of yourself also - eat healthily, exercise regularly, and do as much Sukhmani Sahibs as you can.

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she sriously tinkin abt suicide...she jus wantz2 leave dis duniya, n neva cum bck..she sez she wnts a clean sheet wid mahraj...n wants 2 strt agen...a 2nd chnce...kps talkin abt hw onli mahraj is support bt she dusnt knw hw2 motivate herslf 2 get outa bed n do stuf...

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she knws hw wrng it wud b2 kil herslf so dnt tink shes gna do dat...she jus in dis deeeep depresion nd dusnt knw hw2 pul herslf outa it...she sayz al she nds is her sikhi bk on trck nd she knws evryting wil b cool nd ok den...dats al she needs...

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