Want To Die

[Guest --gupt--]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa!Waheguru ji ki fateh!

Sangat ji plz God nu bolo manu utha la.Manu ni jinna.

I not good in studies,not good in character,nature,Not too rich and not look good.

Manu ni jinna.

Kisi parties vicha jana ho toha parents changa dresses dilanda.But when i wear it, dress look too preety but everyone laugh b'coz i am not compatible of wearing those dresses.

Vikari jivan hai.......bass bura khiyala mann vicha rehanda..........har vela life partner di talash etc etc.Studies ni hondi............shyness nature.................

chida chida pann rehanda............gussa kardi har wela parents da uta.......karna nahi chandi par ki kara..............i wanna die

[SunSingh]

you are where you are b/c of you your karams and b/c of how you have reacted to karams. now is the opportunity for you to better yourself.

character and nature can be changed through effort and meditation on gurbani, and from having proper sangat and avoiding bad.

looks can be helped by eating right and working out.

studies can be helped by picking something that YOU want to study, paying attention to eating etc. and meditation to build up focus, taking care of health, and use of proper study technique. see http://khojee.wordpress.com/2010/01/03/study-skills/. you may also want to go to a doctor for help in case you have depression etc. this would also help with studies. money etc. follows later on in life from smart and hard work.

mostly, i think you need to detach yourself from the foolish opinions of others that are all shallow and pointless, and attach yourself to your Guru's opinions which are deep and meaningful. Your life will become richer and you will see that some things do not matter as much as you now think.

[AmarjitKaur]

so you let yourselves out, now how do you feel.

eh jeevan atma, je is jeevan nu apna samjhna, dukh taa pauNa hee hai.

eh jeev tu aiya laaha lain e, par lagiya dekh kehRe kum aa.

jeevan tera hai hee nahi, jisda tu adhikari samjhda hai to take away.

Neither you were responsible for your birth, nor you are responsible for your death.

Why stand in between, while you are not anybody to decide your birth or death.

tera kum aa, kirt karnee naam japna vand chhukna.

ena kumma nu bhul ke, hor koi vee kum karenga te suffer ta karenga hee.

So don't be stupid. go for running or jogging or join some gym etc.

Life is to flow, let it flow.

ma baap es layee nahi jammde, ke ik din himmat haar ke sada bacha/bachee maran diyan galla karn lag jaave.

life is to treasure, to enjoy, to share with, to jap naam, to do good for ourselves and good for others.

Society dee buniyaad (base) lies on each tiny or big individual person. You are a part of big picture. you don't see your role in it yet, but you will soon.

Instead of looking at computer screen, watching here who responded to your topic, instead pick up Gutka Sahib and Do five Chaupai Sahibs for me today.

And then tomorrow is another fresh day. Do five more to thank GOD for giving you your body, and environment (water, air, food, clothes, etc etc) to have you survive.

Ok, no more whining, crying like a baby. Grow up, OK. breath in and breath out. (You just fed some CO2 to the plants and used some O2 they produced for you, see your role, right there :-))

Now give me a huge smile. Huge one, not tiny little one.

[Guest a little hope]

it is important to understand that everything is in the Hukam of God.

leave all your worries to Guruji and just live your life, for a moment forget about the expectations you have that are based on what the world wants.

God made every individual on the planet. and what God makes is always beautiful.

you dont need to look beautiful for the world, that is your mistake. you need to see your own beauty and accept it.

do your studies, but if you not doing well keep trying, it isnt the end of the world. enjoy what you do, its all a process.

when you get guseh with your parents, just before you do, just breathe and realise that you need to not get guseh, walk away, and go drink a glass of water.

dont be too hard on your self.......

do simran, learn a shabad from gurbani and keep repeating it. do mool mantar or try to learn path of by heart. do ardas every morning and night.

everyone has a potential locked inside them, you need to explore it and everything you do, do it in the name of God.

unfortunatley the world is in need of people who can be kind and compassionate, in need of people who can uplift , and inspire why dont you be one of them?

wanting to die is silly.

you obviously have access to internet. why dont you research into sikhi , sikh history, how about listenin to giani thakur singh katha on youtube, or watching a smagam by sant ranjit singh on youtube? they always make me feel better when im down, so might work for you.......

[buddasingh]

how old are you and where are you located?

[Guest gupt]

Thanx alot to all of u for u'r reply................MAY GOD BLESS U ALL

[innergear]

...by sharing and caring you can win this things...

[Guest truth]

ਕੀਰਤਿ ਸੂਰਤਿ ਮੁਕਤਿ ਇਕ ਨਾਈ ॥

कीरति सूरति मुकति इक नाई ॥

Kīraṯ sūraṯ mukaṯ ik nā▫ī.

Praise, beauty and liberation are in the One Name.

Do naam jaap with love if you want peace.

If you keep this up, you should eventually achieve the following state:

ਗਉੜੀ ਮਹਲਾ ੯ ॥

गउड़ी महला ९ ॥

Ga▫oṛī mėhlā 9.

Gauree, Ninth Mehl:

ਸਾਧੋ ਰਾਮ ਸਰਨਿ ਬਿਸਰਾਮਾ ॥

साधो राम सरनि बिसरामा ॥

Sāḏẖo rām saran bisrāmā.

Holy Saadhus: rest and peace are in the Sanctuary of the Lord.

ਬੇਦ ਪੁਰਾਨ ਪੜੇ ਕੋ ਇਹ ਗੁਨ ਸਿਮਰੇ ਹਰਿ ਕੋ ਨਾਮਾ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

बेद पुरान पड़े को इह गुन सिमरे हरि को नामा ॥१॥ रहाउ ॥

Beḏ purān paṛe ko ih gun simre har ko nāmā. ||1|| rahā▫o.

This is the blessing of studying the Vedas and the Puraanas, that you may meditate on the Name of the Lord. ||1||Pause||

ਲੋਭ ਮੋਹ ਮਾਇਆ ਮਮਤਾ ਫੁਨਿ ਅਉ ਬਿਖਿਅਨ ਕੀ ਸੇਵਾ ॥

लोभ मोह माइआ ममता फुनि अउ बिखिअन की सेवा ॥

Lobẖ moh mā▫i▫ā mamṯā fun a▫o bikẖi▫an kī sevā.

Greed, emotional attachment to Maya, possessiveness, the service of evil,

ਹਰਖ ਸੋਗ ਪਰਸੈ ਜਿਹ ਨਾਹਨਿ ਸੋ ਮੂਰਤਿ ਹੈ ਦੇਵਾ ॥੧॥

हरख सोग परसै जिह नाहनि सो मूरति है देवा ॥१॥

Harakẖ sog parsai jih nāhan so mūraṯ hai ḏevā. ||1||

pleasure and pain - those who are not touched by these, are the very embodiment of the Divine Lord. ||1||

ਸੁਰਗ ਨਰਕ ਅੰਮ੍ਰਿਤ ਬਿਖੁ ਏ ਸਭ ਤਿਉ ਕੰਚਨ ਅਰੁ ਪੈਸਾ ॥

सुरग नरक अम्रित बिखु ए सभ तिउ कंचन अरु पैसा ॥

Surag narak amriṯ bikẖ e sabẖ ṯi▫o kancẖan ar paisā.

Heaven and hell, ambrosial nectar and poison, gold and copper - these are all alike to them.

ਉਸਤਤਿ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਏ ਸਮ ਜਾ ਕੈ ਲੋਭੁ ਮੋਹੁ ਫੁਨਿ ਤੈਸਾ ॥੨॥

उसतति निंदा ए सम जा कै लोभु मोहु फुनि तैसा ॥२॥

Usṯaṯ ninḏā e sam jā kai lobẖ moh fun ṯaisā. ||2||

Praise and slander are all the same to them, as are greed and attachment. ||2||

ਦੁਖੁ ਸੁਖੁ ਏ ਬਾਧੇ ਜਿਹ ਨਾਹਨਿ ਤਿਹ ਤੁਮ ਜਾਨਉ ਗਿਆਨੀ ॥

दुखु सुखु ए बाधे जिह नाहनि तिह तुम जानउ गिआनी ॥

Ḏukẖ sukẖ e bāḏẖe jih nāhan ṯih ṯum jān▫o gi▫ānī.

They are not bound by pleasure and pain - know that they are truly wise.

ਨਾਨਕ ਮੁਕਤਿ ਤਾਹਿ ਤੁਮ ਮਾਨਉ ਇਹ ਬਿਧਿ ਕੋ ਜੋ ਪ੍ਰਾਨੀ ॥੩॥੭॥

नानक मुकति ताहि तुम मानउ इह बिधि को जो प्रानी ॥३॥७॥

Nānak mukaṯ ṯāhi ṯum mān▫o ih biḏẖ ko jo parānī. ||3||7||

O Nanak, recognize those mortal beings as liberated, who live this way of life. ||3||7||