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This is one of many times when He spoke to me. A year and a half/two years ago I had just been sacked from my job(which I didn't like anyway). I felt so lost as I felt I had no place and wanted no place in the world, I saw the 5 theives prevalent in every single person I knew and it got me down so badly. The only thing keeping me alive was naam simran and faith in God(still is although my faith has increased dramatically).

I knew if I went home my parents and family would go mad at me(I have felt constantly attacked and isolated by my entire(and large) family since youth). I went to the Gurdwarra feeling so upset and having entirely lost the desire to live. I had no friends(used to have a whole lot of friends, but got sick of dealing with their theives and bulls**t as well as my own), no family, no education other than Alevels and not a great CV. The job was a receptionist role, and was the first job I had stuck at for a while without getting sacked for my unenthusiastic attitude and unwillingness to act fake(had a previous job at a beauty counter but they got sick of me not acting like a bimbo like I did in the interview to get the job) and wasn't in a relationship- basically had nothing worldly. My parents had told me if I didn't stick at this job I would get kicked out of home and I fully believed them. I had changed dramatically in the two years since ditching my old lifestyle of being a 'normal' girl in societies eyes.

I sat in the gurdwarra alone crying and crying and crying. Then I tuned into the katha that was going on. The gyani was talking about family and how our parents are not our own, that only God is our family and that others come and go. He was saying how parents shout at their kids- everything he was saying basically related to me. That drove me to further tears but gave me resolve not to give up on Gods path because I knew he was with me, guiding me like his child. From that day onwards, I moved forwards and found clarity.

Now bhenji I am being asked to marry a really good looking guy and being offered things I don't even want. I have told my parent I am not interested, I have naam and a path my beloved has given me to follow, what more do I need? Who cares if the world turns on me for following truth, who cares if I get slandered at every corner. I will be ready to be cut and burnt alive for my Beloved with His grace if He wills it. I dont care if I never get married, He is all I need- I will follow His hukam and spread the glory of His name and may Satyug come when we are deserved of it and He wills it. This age of Kalyug is decieving, it is the age of self indulgence, people pleasing, fear and ignorance.

Nothing is as it seems, ghosts run wild and influence the mortals at every corner, there is darkness everywhere- we could be killed and uprooted in an instant, just look at what happened in Norway, one of the most peaceful countries in the world- yet the people and celebrities raise their heads in Ego claiming supremacy over another. The foolishness continues that in Kalyug, manmukhs such as royalty, celebrities, the wealthy and people who are claimed to be beautiful are worshipped, but the beautiful, selfless holy man is slandered. This age is nothing but the conciousnesses of mentally ill beings who choose to worship darkness and bullsh*t(and dark and bullsh**t mortals) over the light of Truth and get stuck in darkness after death because of their incredibly foolish choices in this life. They truly trade the priceless diamond for a mere shell.

May our sleeping Brothers and Sisters wake up to the Truth and may Naam/Truth pervade the conciousness of all. May His glory be spread throughout the universe.

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Seeking-an-answer, seems to me like you have had a crush on "The Man from Wolverhampton" and you are hearing and seeing Wolverhampton everywhere you go.

There is a large Sikh community in Wolves so there is bound to be people who know someone there or have relatives there, it is not uncommon to have marraige setups in Wolves etc. Have you noticed how you hear Wolverhampton every 2-3 months or after 6 months, that is not frequent, if it had been every other week you may have a point. If the guy had been from Birmingham then you would in all likliness have heard Birmingham even more frequently.

I cannot understand how you think this is a sign when you never met this guy, he has never met you, you have never spoken to him and now he is married to someone else! :huh2:

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Bundha I understand what u are saying but I think it is abit stange how I have worked with 2 people that

Have lived ad moved from Wolverhampton and how also a year to the date I saw the profike

I meet another man with the same name and location. Now I am not saying that these signs or occurances have anything to do with the guy I saw on the net, I admit at first I did, but as he is now married I'm thinking maybe he was part of the sign.

I just find these occaurances have come oddly and in different ways. I haven't worked with 2 people from birmingham or anywhere other thab london for that matter.

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hmmm dont know wat to say, im from wolverhampton, and its a cool city. No big deal that wolverhampton has been mentioned recently on occasions in ur life. Doesnt really mean anything in my opnion, i think just so happens that wolverhampton been mentioned thats all.

If u feel that strong abt wolverhampton coming into ur life, why not go for trip, I suggest u come to the gurdware for a visit. Best trip you'll have rather than shopping which u can do anywhere.

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im not a bhramgyani by any means, but im pretty sure that it isnt gurmat to believe in these coincidences/messages. Im sure if you tried hard enough you could find a pattern/message/coincidence with most things. Just dont over analyse things too much and your lives will be a lot simpler and happier im sure, dont mean to offend anyone. fateh

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hmmm dont know wat to say, im from wolverhampton, and its a cool city. No big deal that wolverhampton has been mentioned recently on occasions in ur life. Doesnt really mean anything in my opnion, i think just so happens that wolverhampton been mentioned thats all.

If u feel that strong abt wolverhampton coming into ur life, why not go for trip, I suggest u come to the gurdware for a visit. Best trip you'll have rather than shopping which u can do anywhere.

The whole point is that there is no 'my opinon'- thats worldly knowledge not gurmat. Gurmat is to throw all of your ideas and ideals out the window(including all sense of 'mine'), giving your head up to the guru and to embark on the path of bhagti.

Not a single thing that has happened in any person's life has, or will ever have been a cooincidence, every single little detail has been strategically planned out by God for us in this khel. Therefore everything that happens is absolutely perfect(hukam) and signs/lessons are truly everywhere(although in reality there is nothing).

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EVerybody else gave their opnions, thus I gave my opnion too. Sometime we have to think for ourselves too, and not leave everything for god to decide. Agree that everything that happens is in god's hukam. Whats the big deal if i wrote my opnion, am I not entitled to an opnion?

Life poster you have twisted my post around, and made it something that it is not, I feel i've not said anything wrong and stick by that regardless of what you have done. Jideh chust banan di nai koi lorr okjiii..

thankuji

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as we purify our mind through simran seva satsangat and from obeying our conscience we become more in tune with our intuition. so external coincidences could just be merely external coincidences, a person who is not in tune with their intuition would not know. But, external events could also be meaningful. We would know this through our intuition. The same events could be meaningless to one person, but hold an important message for another. i have heard that if we do ardass asking God a question, then God will give us an answer within a few days. The answer could come in any form, something we see or something someone says. We need to listen to our intuition to know.

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as we purify our mind through simran seva satsangat and from obeying our conscience we become more in tune with our intuition. so external coincidences could just be merely external coincidences, a person who is not in tune with their intuition would not know. But, external events could also be meaningful. We would know this through our intuition. The same events could be meaningless to one person, but hold an important message for another. i have heard that if we do ardass asking God a question, then God will give us an answer within a few days. The answer could come in any form, something we see or something someone says. We need to listen to our intuition to know.

Beautiful and so true.

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