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But inciting people to feel guilty at every turn is not the best way to get through to them. The constant finger-wagging and "shame on you" attitude when people are - on the whole - good people and obedient to their faith is occasionally off-putting, especially if one doesn't deserve to be made to feel inadequate and sub-par. We could always do more for Sikhi - of course there's no doubt about this.

So you wrote the above without thinking?

Learn to admit your ignorance and lack of ability to express your thoughts.

THINK BEFORE YOU WRITE.

You really are quite special aren't you? Chalo if that's the way you want it then fair enough. Do I need to sign-post every single post I make with IN MY OPINION, IN MY OPINION, IN MY OPINION.

Its quite startling how you can say "admit your ignorance and lack of ability to express your thoughts". The lack of self-awareness on your part is mindblowing. I suggest you tone down your ramblings and take a spoon of your own medicine.

I would love to continue this dance with you but arguing with fools is not my forte. You have completely missed the point of my post and are arguing against something which isn't even an issue if you'd taken the time to understand what is being said.

Contact me by PM if you still don't understand what I'm trying to say. I'll explain it to you in words that you will clearly comprehend.

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On a serious note, I see the mods are logged-on yet they seem happy to watch the unfolding tamasha. Surely someone on Quality Control should have their posts regulated a bit more closely?

While the mods may be logged in it does not mean we are

a) active at the time

b) reading through all the new posts being made

Typically I don't go through all new posts looking for trouble makers. If in my normal browsing I see something out of line, action is taken. I would encourage the more mature members to please use the Report feature to highlight any and all posts which are out of line. Dhanwaad :)

PS. The posts are regulated, the ones you see are the filtered ones. That outta tell you something eh

JSinghnz, you already are on QC. I would advise you to be courteous and nice to others. Don't make me unpackage my shiny new club. I have been working out I tell you :pushups:

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While the mods may be logged in it does not mean we are

a) active at the time

b) reading through all the new posts being made

Typically I don't go through all new posts looking for trouble makers. If in my normal browsing I see something out of line, action is taken. I would encourage the more mature members to please use the Report feature to highlight any and all posts which are out of line. Dhanwaad :)

PS. The posts are regulated, the ones you see are the filtered ones. That outta tell you something eh

JSinghnz, you already are on QC. I would advise you to be courteous and nice to others. Don't make me unpackage my shiny new club. I have been working out I tell you :pushups:

Understood. Better late than never I suppose.

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