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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

Before I start this post, if any member is going to judge lr ridicule then please do not reply.

I am 21 years old an have been celibate all the way until a few weeks ago. I am plundered with shame and guilt. The girl and I are friends however he does not want a serious relationship. As per Sikhi I know what I have done is wrong, I just would like some guidance as to why I can do to get back on the right road.

Help?!?

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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh veerji,

Firstly ardas to guru sahib, and ask for forgivness. If youre an amritdhari singh.. then you MUST see the panj pyare, do not delay... they will forgive you, and give you punishment as per their will. And if you havnt so yet, then i guess Ardas to guru sahib, and get someone to take a hukamnama, do paath... and just make sure this never happens again. even if you havnt taken amrit.. it will still worthwile visiting the panj pyaare.. they will surely direct you in the right way.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh

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Let the guilt go - you are a man stay to what you have did. It was your greedy mind who let you do this things now handle it yourself.Why are you ashamed? You just did it the shame is big the guilt is big - but now you have learnt from your mistake - So I hope this will never happen again.

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