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Guru pyareho,

Please help me I am 21 years old and my addiction to kaam and p**n is taking me away from sikhi. My mind is constantly filled with sexual thoughts.

Please tell me shabads from SGGS I can recite to get rid of these thoughts. (as many as possible)

and provide more tips on how to concentrate on sikhi.

Thank you

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Guru pyareho,

Please help me I am 21 years old and my addiction to kaam and p**n is taking me away from sikhi. My mind is constantly filled with sexual thoughts.

Please tell me shabads from SGGS I can recite to get rid of these thoughts. (as many as possible)

and provide more tips on how to concentrate on sikhi.

Thank you

KhalsaJi

In addition to your Nitnem please spend at least 45 minutes reciting Mool Mantar. Also Naam Simran will subdue unsavoury thoughts.

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Thank u Khalsa ji for all replies. I am eagerly waiting to see more shabads I can recite to get over This. Please post in Gurmukhi and English translation.

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No! Reciting alone isn´t enough you need to conteemplate and understand . Just reciting all the time wouldn´t help you. You need to realize, what you are doing, and why you are doing this. Interalise!

It is one of the greatest evils that tempts people away from God. It makes an individual weak-willed and unreliable. The normal sexual relationship of house-holders (a married couple) is not restricted in any way in Sikhism. But sex outside of marriage or sex forced against the will of ones partner is taboo, as it can cause unlimited sorrows. ਸ੝ਣਿ ਸ੝ਣਿ ਕਾਮ ਗਹੇਲੀਝ ਕਿਆ ਚਲਹਿ ਬਾਹ ਲ੝ਡਾਇ ॥ सढ़णि सढ़णि काम गहेलीझ किआ चलहि बाह लढ़डाइ ॥ sun sun kaam gahaylee-ay ki-aa chaleh baah ludaa-ay. Listen, listen, Oh, soul-bride: you are overtaken by sexual desire-why do you walk like that, swinging your arms in joy? (Page 37, Line 18) Guru Amar Das) ਅਹਿਨਿਸਿ ਕਾਮਿ ਵਿਆਪਿਆ ਵਣਜਾਰਿਆ ਮਿਤ੝ਰਾ ਅੰਧ੝ਲੇ ਨਾਮ੝ ਨ ਚਿਤਿ ॥ अहिनिसि कामि विआपिआ वणजारिआ मितढ़रा अंधढ़ले नामढ़ न चिति ॥ ahinis kaam vi-aapi-aa vanjaari-aa mitraa anDhulay naam na chit. Day and night, you are engrossed in sexual desire, O my merchant friend, and your consciousness is blind to the Naam. (Guru Nanak Dev page 75 line 16) ਉਛਲਿਆ ਕਾਮ੝ ਕਾਲ ਮਤਿ ਲਾਗੀ ਤਉ ਆਨਿ ਸਕਤਿ ਗਲਿ ਬਾਂਧਿਆ ॥੨॥ उछलिआ कामढ़ काल मति लागी तउ आनि सकति गलि बांधिआ ॥२॥ uchhli-aa kaam kaal mat laagee ta-o aan sakat gal baaNDhi-aa. You are overflowing with sexual desire, and your intellect is stained with darkness; you are held in the grip of Shakti's power. ||2|| (Bhagat Baini page 93 line 7) ਅਵਰ ਮਰਤ ਮਾਇਆ ਮਨ੝ ਤੋਲੇ ਤਉ ਭਗ ਮ੝ਖਿ ਜਨਮ੝ ਵਿਗੋਇਆ ॥੩॥ अवर मरत माइआ मनढ़ तोले तउ भग मढ़खि जनमढ़ विगोइआ ॥३॥ avar marat maa-i-aa man tolay ta-o bhag mukh janam vigo-i-aa. When others die, you measure your own wealth in your mind; you waste your life in the pleasures of the mouth and sexual organs. ||3|| (Devotee Baini page 93 line 10) Your eyebrows are like a bow, from which the arrows of lust are coming out and striking us like the dagger Dasam Granth Page 703, Line 1

WATCHING PORN

Sikhs should not watch porn. these things keep you away from not only spiritual life but also effect your normal life. These makes you masturbative and you will loose your virginity all this falls under part of kam. You are watching for internal pleasure. This is banned for sikhs.

Actually the buisnessmans of porn know that Kaam(lust) is the main evil which is in every human being they take support of this evil and makes you kami. They earn money through kam And can destroy your life through it.

ਤੀਜੈ ਝਾਖ ਝਖਾਇਆ ਚਉਥੈ ਭੋਰ੝ ਭਇਆ ॥

तीजै झाख झखाइआ चउथै भोरढ़ भइआ ॥

teejai jhaakh jhakhaa-i-aa cha-uthai bhor bha-i-aa.

In the third, they babble nonsense, and when the fourth

watch comes, the day of death has arrived.

Guru Arjan Page 43 line 12)

ਅਗਿਆਨ ਮਤੀ ਅੰਧੇਰ੝ ਹੈ ਬਿਨ੝ ਪਿਰ ਦੇਖੇ ਭ੝ਖ ਨ ਜਾਇ ॥

अगिआन मती अंधेरढ़ है बिनढ़ पिर देखे भढ़ख न जाइ ॥

agi-aan matee anDhayr hai bin pir daykhay bhukh na jaa-ay.

In the darkness of intellectual ignorance, she cannot

see her Husband, and her hunger does not depart.

Guru amardas page 38 line 5

Bura dekhan main chalea (kabir)

Ranna hoyian bodhian purash hoye sinyaar

(Kuriyan nu dikhan da shonk te pursh nu wekhan daa)

Many things are written in guru granth sahib regarding this. If you don't have self control go towards guru granth sahib and do ardas from the depth of your heart. Waheguru will definitely show you the way.

ਜ੝ੱਧ ਜਿਤੇ ਇਨ ਹੀ ਕੇ ਪ੝ਰਸਾਦਿ ਇਨ ਹੀ ਕੇ ਪ੝ਰਸਾਦਿ ਸ੝ ਦਾਨ ਕਰੇ ॥

ਅਘ ਅਉਘ ਟਰੈ ਇਨ ਹੀ ਕੇ ਪ੝ਰਸਾਦਿ ਇਨ ਹੀ ਕ੝ਰਿਪਾ ਫ੝ਨ ਧਾਮ ਭਰੇ ॥

जढ़ढ़ध जिते इन ही के पढ़रसादि इन ही के पढ़रसादि सढ़ दान करे ॥

अघ अउघ टरै इन ही के पढ़रसादि इन ही कढ़रिपा फढ़न धाम भरे ॥

By the kindness of these Sikhs, I have conquered the wars and

also by their kindness, I have bestowed charities;

by their kindness the clusters on sins have been destroyed and

by their kindness my house is full of wealth and materials;

“O my Master. I am silly, save me, 0 my Lord-God!

Thy slave’s praise in thine own glory!” (AG, 166)

ਕਾਮ੝ ਕ੝ਰੋਧ੝ ਕਾਇਆ ਕਉ ਗਾਲੈ ॥ ਜਿਉ ਕੰਚਨ ਸੋਹਾਗਾ ਢਾਲੈ ॥

Kĝm kroḝẖ kĝ­i­ĝ ka­o gĝlai. Ji­o kancẖan sohĝgĝ dẖĝlai.

Lust and wrath wastes the body away, as borax melts gold. sggs page 932

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Raag Asa m: 5

Mitheya sang sang laptaye moh maieya kar badhey ll

They are attached to falsehood; clinging to the transitory, they are trapped in emotional attachment to Maya.

Jeh jano so chit na avai ahan(g)budh bhaiye aandhe ll1ll

Wherever they go, they do not think of the Lord; they are blinded by intellectual egotism. ||1||

Man bairaagi kyu na araadhe ll

O mind, O renunciate, why don't you adore Him?

kaach kathori mahe tu basta sang sagal bikhai ki biaadhe ll1ll Rahao ll

You dwell in that flimsy chamber, with all the sins of corruption. ||1||Pause||

meri meri kart din rain bihaavai pal khin chcheejai arjaadhe ll

Crying out, ""Mine, mine"", your days and nights pass away; moment by moment, your life is running out

jaise meethai saad lobhaiey jhooth dhandh durgaadhe ll2ll

The sweet flavors tempt you, and you are occupied by your false and filthy business. ||2||

kaam krodh ar lobh moh eh indri ras laptadhe ll

Your senses are beguiled by sensual pleasures of sex, by anger, greed and emotional attachment.

dee-ee bhavaari purakh bidhatai bahur bahur janmadhe ll3ll

The All-powerful Architect of Destiny has ordained that you shall be reincarnated over and over again. ||3||

jau bhaeyo kripaal deen dukh bhanjan tau gur mil sabh sukh laadhe ll

When the Destroyer of the pains of the poor becomes merciful, then, as Gurmukh, you shall find absolute peace.

kahu nanak din rain dhiaavau maar kaad(h)i sagal upaadhe ll4ll

Says Nanak, meditate on the Lord, day and night, and all your sickness shall be banished. ||4||

eyo japeyo bhaiee purakh bidhaate ll

Meditate in this way, O Siblings of Destiny, on the Lord, the Architect of Destiny.

Bhaiyo kripaal deen dukh bhanjan janam maran dukh laathe ll1ll Rahao Dooja ll4ll4ll126ll

The Destroyer of the pains of the poor has become merciful; He has removed the pains of birth and death. ||1||Second Pause||4||4||126||

Raag Asa m:5

Nimakh kaam suaad kaaran kot dinas dukh paaveh ll

For a moment of sexual pleasure, you shall suffer in pain for millions of days.

gharee muht rang jaaneh phir bahur bahur pachutaaveh ll1ll

For an instant, you may savor pleasure, but afterwards, you shall regret it, again and again. ||1||

andhe cheyt har har raaiyaa ll

O blind man, meditate on the Lord, the Lord, your King.

tera so din ner(h)ai aaeyaa ll1ll Rahao ll

Your day is drawing near. ||1||Pause||

palak drist dekh bhoolo aak neem ko too(n)mar ll

You are deceived, beholding with your eyes, the bitter melon and swallow-wort.

jaisa sang biseear seo hai re taiso hee ehu par grehu ll2ll

But, like the companionship of a poisonous snake, so is the desire for another's spouse. ||2||

bairee karan paap karta bast rahee amaanaa ll

For the sake of your enemy, you commit sins, while you neglect the reality of your faith.

chchod jaahe tin hee seu sangee saajan seu bairaanaa ll3ll

Your friendship is with those who abandon you, and you are angry with your friends. ||3||

sagal sansaar ehai bidh biaapeyo so ubreyo jis gur poora ll

The entire world is entangled in this way; he alone is saved, who has the Perfect Guru.

kahu nanak bhav saagar tareyo bhaey puneet sareeraa ll4ll5ll127ll

Says Nanak, I have crossed over the terrifying world- ocean; my body has become sanctified. ||4||5||127||

waheguru ji...

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waheguru ji...

you can keep reciting these two panktis all the time....

ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਅਰੁ ਲੋਭ ਮੋਹ ਬਿਨਸਿ ਜਾਇ ਅਹੰਮੇਵ ॥

ਨਾਨਕ ਪ੍ਰਭ ਸਰਣਾਗਤੀ ਕਰਿ ਪ੍ਰਸਾਦੁ ਗੁਰਦੇਵ ॥੧॥

or

ਸੋਰਠਿ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥

ਕਾਮ ਕ੍ਰੋਧ ਲੋਭ ਝੂਠ ਨਿੰਦਾ ਇਨ ਤੇ ਆਪਿ ਛਡਾਵਹੁ ॥

ਇਹ ਭੀਤਰ ਤੇ ਇਨ ਕਉ ਡਾਰਹੁ ਆਪਨ ਨਿਕਟਿ ਬੁਲਾਵਹੁ ॥੧॥

ਅਪੁਨੀ ਬਿਧਿ ਆਪਿ ਜਨਾਵਹੁ ॥

ਹਰਿ ਜਨ ਮੰਗਲ ਗਾਵਹੁ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥

ਬਿਸਰੁ ਨਾਹੀ ਕਬਹੂ ਹੀਏ ਤੇ ਇਹ ਬਿਧਿ ਮਨ ਮਹਿ ਪਾਵਹੁ ॥

ਗੁਰੁ ਪੂਰਾ ਭੇਟਿਓ ਵਡਭਾਗੀ ਜਨ ਨਾਨਕ ਕਤਹਿ ਨ ਧਾਵਹੁ ॥੨॥੩॥੩੧॥

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