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Guest Robby Sandhu

Yes u can kiss her she is ur wife

Its your life partner which god has given u

You should take care of her

You should Love her she needs ur Love

Else she will go to someone else ok

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Guest KoiBahnda

Waheguru ji ka khalsa,Waheguru ji ki fateh

I have been married for some time now and was wondering if kissing is allowed. I am amritdhari but my wife is not amritdhari. Is it to indulge in kaam if I kiss her? Please only sensible answers.

There is a natural instinct when it comes to kissing, like when you see a small child, you would naturally kiss him or her on the cheeks, (Pyar wali chumbhi) and similarly you would kiss your pet animals too due to pure affection, nothing else, but if you were to kiss someone purely because you saw it from sexual or arousal point of view, i would have thought that would be lust, and not affection, that kiss has no value, it is part of sexual desire, so i would not classify that kiss as part of affection. I have cats, and I really love them like my children and often I will kiss them on their forehead!

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just use cling film and ther will be ok sucham.... ;-)But seriously arent there shabads in guru granth sahib on what is tru suchm. I remember readin it . How doers a bit of saliva destroy guru gobind singhs AMRIT? Don't make no sense! Perhaps in his company she 2 wil be hav AMRIT . But if he push her away like this no one is helped ?

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