The western way was also one of pragmatism until recently relatively speaking. "Love" seems to have crept into the equation around the time society was entering the period where individualistic feelings and desires were seen to be preferable to reason and foresight. And here we are. But wait... there's more! 😁
Not2cool2argue lol funny name, if you do not realise that a homosexual didn't tell a heterosexual of their sexuality before marriage, is not a lie you need your head sorting out. Plus this done infront of our Gurus presence. This world has gone insane.
Do ardaas to guruji and ask for forgiveness.
Every person has to decide how much they will listen to guruji when worldly it hurts them.
Its a majboori. Try to make a decision that once i have reached this amt of money, or paid this much mortgage, i will stop doing this.
How did he lie? No one asks u if ur gay. I think even if a guy admitted to being gay, noone would disqualify them from marriage in india. Parents and inlaws would just expect u to suck up ur wants and fantasies and to manage ur feelings and live a virtous family life.
Girls have been married off for millenia without taking their wants into consideration. Marriage was their life occupation, there was no out to it. Now men too are bound to it, whether gay or not. Parents demand an heir esp if only son. My cousin wants to be behungum/ celibate baba but his parents wont hear of it.