Dating is a broad word, encompassing far more than the sham marriage most people represent it as.
Bro. Don't even chat up these girls. You're right back to dating Ji. Right back to pandering. Right back to all that going wrong.
Get rock solid in that Rehit and have it arranged with an equally rock solid Sighni. Everything else is just bad waiting to happen.
Not sketchy at all. Ahem.
And no talking on the phone and whatnot. Paath and Rishta is your lane, stay in it.
And even if I was the kinda dude to be chatting you up, I certainly would not while you string on some dude in the Netherlands.