Kaam.

[13Mirch]

I gave into kaam today. It attacked me unexpectedly. It is starting to become a daily occurrence. What is wrong with me?

[ladli-fauj]

it will not only happen today...the ''attack'' will happen for the rest of the days...you have to recognize whats going on, even then it might take ages to control your mind...what ever is happening is nothing wrong...what is wrong is the mind..the mind is like a ''maidaan'' or ran a battle field...kaam never dies but causes a rebirth...what is kaam ? what is happening is your energy your seema has reached a point it rises, but when it rises throughout your body and you have vibrations--your mind which has been fed dirty thoughts will take that think dirty thoughts and drain the seema energy out your body...it will happen day after day same thing nothing different...energy rising, then because of the minds dirty thoughts it is wasted....actually this energy is much much more..its not only energy,...its the buidling blocks of life...this energy the vibrations is much more than that also in a sense its naam rass, well it can be used for naam rass....waheguru is not only seen, bhagats have said we have seen waheguru (though waheguru is hard to describe) but we have also HEARD waheguru...there are acoustic energy bivrations that make of the 5th element 'air' after all space is made up of wahegurus light...the energy that atoms etc manifest into...waheguru has a nirgun saroop, and sargun saroop....during samadhi the goal is to merge, open your third eye of and merge with the geet, vibrations, anhad naad, prakash the jot of waheguru which are his bol...paramtma de bol...waheguru also speaks, and is forever speaking, thakur hamara sadh bolanta...har vakhat bol reya ...but your mind wasnt present...since you were born you muted yourself to paratma de bol, paratma de geet the vibrations where waheguru is speaking, you can also hear it

if seeining waheguru was seeing with these eyes then the blind bhagat in guru granth sahib would never have been able to see waheguru...even the deaf say the can hear,,,the dance of the world through kaaal, the vibrations and geet of paratma....you need to stop wasting your energy through kaam thoughts and recognize whats really happening, there is a prakash, anhad naad forever playing, it rises in you from below, your body has been made to have such power but your mind...your mind causes you to forget this power, waste this power.....when your energy rises, recognize the energy, wahegurus presence, try to merge and hear wahegurus jot and become 1...do naam simran, convert it to naam rass ?

[ladli-fauj]

paratma de bol= waheguru de geet= kushi de geet= sohila=anhad shabad=anhad naad= vibrations=naam= jot, light= prakash= energy= wahegurus presence its all the same, only thing, ur mind thinks dirty thoughts and u waste the energy day after day...anek hai fir ek hai

bhagat nu pechanan li ik khaas akh honi chahi di hai

bhagat hon li ik khaas hirda hona chahi da hai

[innergear]

You might be at puberty . It happens . It is natural. u can see the changes in ur body . Hav u run a search on here. There R sum good posts on How 2do kam

[Gursikh10]

Well it kind of depends on your age.

But Kaam is as lethal as a drug, and can take over your life.

Just listen to shabads or read gurbani. God will help you.

[GyanParbodh]

Hit the gym.

[13Mirch]

I am amritdhari too thats what makes it worse. Done Karate etc. nothing works out. Its a massive problem.

[Only five]

I am amritdhari too thats what makes it worse. Done Karate etc. nothing works out. Its a massive problem.

Seniors in there last years of life, last week, last day, last second are dying, but the kaam inside of them is still alive and having a party. Their hair has fallen out, they can barely move a muscle, but kaam is still present in their system and has not slowed down. Have you seen all the babas in the malls, what do you think they are doing while sitting on the benches?

Some practice yoga (breathing exercises, postures, mantras, etc) to get rid of it, but yoga has failed the devotee for since it was introduced. No one beat kaam by doing yoga. No one beat kaam by indulging in it. No one beat kaam by replacing it with another intoxicate and then reading Bani. No one beat kaam by avoiding it. No one beat kaam by ignoring it. One thing i love most about Taksal Gursikhs is that they tell you where to start. They grab your hand and guide the mind. What do you eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner? Does it have that taste good salt feeling, what about that little mouth burning feel or what about that sweet sugar taste? Think back to the time when your mom made that dal that had no spice or salt taste. Tell her to make you food like that from now on..........that pizza with soo much cheese, sauce and oil that excites the mind...................consider it poison from now on. Whatever soft drink you drink, stop drinking it and think................I love me some water, or juice right now.

What sangat you are around, what you watch, what you listen to (including others speaking not just songs) all needs to be regulated. When two drinkers sit down one fills up boths cups and they throw it down, both are effected negatively.................when you sit in sangat one person pours (speaks) the filth in the other person ear and it goes into the person's mind and both are effected negatively.

The best thing you can do is don't fight it, but sit down and start listening to Guru Sahib. You have an issue go tell it to Satguru. We tell Satguru about our issue by reading Gurbani and the Gurbani we read has the answer to our problem. Satguru will directly give you instructions on how to solve it.

You don't need to ask anyone else. Satguru Sri Guru Granth Sahib ji Maharaj has your answer. You can ask Satguru on any ang and Satguru will tell you the answer. And if you cannot hear the answer on the first ang then keep reading until you hear the answer. The deeper we dive into the ocean the clearer the answer we would be able to hear. Once you get the answer, then your tongue will start by itself repeating Vaheguru simran.

[VanHelsingh]

You might be at puberty . It happens . It is natural. u can see the changes in ur body . Hav u run a search on here. There R sum good posts on How 2do kam

The problem is he doesn't want to "do kaam". He wants to stop it.

I know you're taking the mick but you make me grin.

[taranbir5]

thought came to mind from KAAM we got birth, and KAAM is the shakti through which we can meet guru

if KAAM shakti goes down it gives birth to kids, if it goes upwards, it gives birth to guru inside you. so those kaam feelings are required to give birth, but to distract those feelings, i guess let it flow and try to be focused early morning on simran, this way one day, you will be out of it

rest thoughts of kaam coming in mind i won't say its bad, its a natural thinking process, we are humans, we were born with kaam, so relax nothing wrong you have done ,