Same surname marriage

[MokhamSingh]

tell me here pls?

Mukti Nama says: 'Gursikh should marry Gursikh', but the Gott ( surname) of mother and Gott of father has to be avoided.

i.e. Satnam Singh has father's surname 'Jones' and Mother's surname 'Smith'. On that basis, Satnam Singh CANNOT marry anyone with the surnames 'Jones' or 'Smith'.

Does that clarify Guru Ji's Hukum?....

[Jonny101]

It doesnt make it any different it one family was from the sun , and the other the moon. It still against the culture of Panjab, and jatts especially. Even Khatris avoid same ghotra marriage.

depends on the region. The further west the Khatris lived, they adopted the customs of the Muslim population such as marrying cousins and doing watta satta. The the ones from central and eastern Punjab did not.

[TurbanGuys]

Mukti Nama says: 'Gursikh should marry Gursikh', but the Gott ( surname) of mother and Gott of father has to be avoided.

i.e. Satnam Singh has father's surname 'Jones' and Mother's surname 'Smith'. On that basis, Satnam Singh CANNOT marry anyone with the surnames 'Jones' or 'Smith'.

Does that clarify Guru Ji's Hukum?....

No... I mean Give me some Genuine links/scriptures/notes of this hukam Where I can Read the same thing.....

[MokhamSingh]

No... I mean Give me some Genuine links/scriptures/notes of this hukam Where I can Read the same thing.....

I gave you the link for the 'Mukti Nama' . Do you not understand English?....

[TurbanGuys]

I gave you the link for the 'Mukti Nama' . Do you not understand English?....

it was yours...I want an another link where you read the same thing and I am getting it but I m not getting you..that's the confusion :PP

[MokhamSingh]

it was yours...I want an another link where you read the same thing and I am getting it but I m not getting you..that's the confusion :PP

http://www.scribd.com/mobile/doc/25845336

[JeevanCymro]

Mukti Nama says: 'Gursikh should marry Gursikh', but the Gott ( surname) of mother and Gott of father has to be avoided.

i.e. Satnam Singh has father's surname 'Jones' and Mother's surname 'Smith'. On that basis, Satnam Singh CANNOT marry anyone with the surnames 'Jones' or 'Smith'.

Does that clarify Guru Ji's Hukum?....

Please clarify why would Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj give us Singh and Kaur as names and then specify non marriage of same Gotra....I am non punjabi and names in west are based on fathers name (Jones is John;s Son) and others are work based so (smith would be a smithy ie blacksmith) So most Jones wont be related even remotely because they are son of john...there are many Johns - the same with smith. Lets be honest here if you are not marrying anyone thats your sibling, first cousin of parent/uncles/aunties then surely the genetic mutation thing goes out the window? Based on this your great great great grandfather could be the same as your partners great great great grandfather and its still wrong? Really? Surely you should marry the person thats going to have the strongest Sikh jeevan than just ones that appease your family?

[TurbanGuys]

Please clarify why would Guru Gobind Singh Ji Maharaj give us Singh and Kaur as names and then specify non marriage of same Gotra....I am non punjabi and names in west are based on fathers name (Jones is John;s Son) and others are work based so (smith would be a smithy ie blacksmith) So most Jones wont be related even remotely because they are son of john...there are many Johns - the same with smith. Lets be honest here if you are not marrying anyone thats your sibling, first cousin of parent/uncles/aunties then surely the genetic mutation thing goes out the window? Based on this your great great great grandfather could be the same as your partners great great great grandfather and its still wrong? Really? Surely you should marry the person thats going to have the strongest Sikh jeevan than just ones that appease your family?

maharaj ji did not say anything like that..This guy is just fitting his manmat with Gurmat... I asked him to give me evidence where the Guruji said like that ..but he is just giving his own links and other authors who themselves believe in Caste names..... Btw Indian caste system is based on Profession not on birth or clan. There is hardly any chance if the same genes are found in both parters and the other thing .. Indian castenames do not represent only one Group of people... These represent many communities of people.. Indeed the harsh truth is that We indian sikhs are being brain washed by our parents... The lesson is taught about the importance of jatheras in our life rather than sikhi and you know We sikhs from india have come from Hindus.. so obviously we need more 500 yrs to grow up from such hindu rituals.....because Its an hindu blood at last ...that we have in our souls...

I do wonder its 2014 ..we are not living in B.C...but believing castenames identify our ancestors ? lol One of the best kidding.... We bark on hindus but we cherish their systems lol

[Gurpritd]

I agree with this post about not being from the same pind. As long as you are not related, it really should not matter.

Infact there are some last names that intermarry. Such as Brars, Sidhus and Gills. I have two massi that are married (my mom's cousins) to men with the same last name. These were arranged marriages.

It is a cultural thing....but some districts like bhatinda...most of those people are Brar's and Sidhus...who marry each other.

So really its about that. Apparently...the Punjab politician "Badal"...is from the pind Badal...but he is a Dhillon...who's daughter is married to a Dhillon as well...

People are really not caring about this anymore, as it is hard to find good people out there.

[JSinghnz]

I agree with this post about not being from the same pind. As long as you are not related, it really should not matter.

Infact there are some last names that intermarry. Such as Brars, Sidhus and Gills. I have two massi that are married (my mom's cousins) to men with the same last name. These were arranged marriages.

It is a cultural thing....but some districts like bhatinda...most of those people are Brar's and Sidhus...who marry each other.

So really its about that. Apparently...the Punjab politician "Badal"...is from the pind Badal...but he is a Dhillon...who's daughter is married to a Dhillon as well...

People are really not caring about this anymore, as it is hard to find good people out there.

when will you people get rid of your backward, tribal tail names and adapt only SINGH and Kaur as your last names??????????????