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I was replying to a post. I see no reason to quote & make personal attacks on my posts with very negative words. You are so far from Sikhi, if you have become so inflexible with your orthodox views, mostly like you a teen to 20's turban wearing guy with no life. Sikhi is a religion of love. I am not amritdhari so don't use the lastname Khalsa...I use Kaur before my surname as common practice. Yes we are tribal, and the names may be tribal to you...but that is an familial identity. Kaur & Singh are religious identities that show affiliation to religion. I use both so scream you head off, and show some respect to other people's views.

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I was replying to a post. I see no reason to quote & make personal attacks on my posts with very negative words. You are so far from Sikhi, if you have become so inflexible with your orthodox views, mostly like you a teen to 20's turban wearing guy with no life. Sikhi is a religion of love. I am not amritdhari so don't use the lastname Khalsa...I use Kaur before my surname as common practice. Yes we are tribal, and the names may be tribal to you...but that is an familial identity. Kaur & Singh are religious identities that show affiliation to religion. I use both so scream you head off, and show some respect to other people's views.

Your immaturity screams through with your immature comments and mindset.

keep using your sur name, fur name or any other name too. LOL

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I'm pretty sure dads pass x and Y chromosome so not sure that's a good post... You get an x from mum and an x or y from dad so xx =girl and xy = dad. Maternal and grandparents links are checked if you do it do it properly. The only issue is lineage so if this Is shared then in our culture it is considered incestuous.... But take advice as u never know what your parents view is until you ask - u don't have to tell them why u r asking just ask.

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Mr Johal saab , Mian v pind to belong karda , main aksar dekhya pind de munde , pind dia kurian naal dating karde ne , Even our elder they have setting neighbors bhabi something like that , honestly ek bar soch ke dekh ke tuhade pind vich aida nai hunda, Pind vich marriage karn lai kuri munda behan bhai , Dating jida marzi karo je dating kar sakde aa te marriage v kar sakde aa , Eh sab bakwas ke sade guru granth sahib vich likhya aa aida , kithe likhya please link send karna , Nale surname kehne banaya sanu ki pata assi koun aa te kitho aaye aa, According to science everyone have connection in the world it means we all brother and sister . Ek passe assi kehnde haan ke dunia ek insaan te aurat bani aa , je ek insaan te aurat to bai aa te assi sab behan bhai hee lagde fer te sanu kise nu v kise naal marriage karn da haq nai aa

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Main v ek pind to belong karda aa , Aksar dekhya pind vich munde kurian nu dating karde fer marriage karan to ki probelm aa ? jo jo message kar riha ek bar soch ke dekhe ke pinda vich ki hunda , Even sade elders v ghat nai c , main sunda hunda c ke ohna dada ohna dee bibi naal dekhya , aaj kal v munde kurian pinda vich aam dekhe jande aa, according to sceince we all connected it means we all brother and sister , Even we heard dunia te pehla ek admi aaya fir aurat , je dunia ek aurat te aadmi to bani aa fer te assi sab behan bai , fer te koi v nai marriage kar sakda .

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It's okay if you are married to the same surname. For example, in my family we are a Kalkat, and my dad's friend from his pind, is also Kalkat. Does this mean we are related to each other? The answer is no.

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