Alcoholic Boyfriend

[VanHelsingh]

LOL...You are such a romantic!

Some might be into that. You just gotta find the right girl for you.

I'll wait for the restraining order to expire before I make my next move.

[Guest]

Kaljugi veer!!Hahahahahaha

[gurdssingh]

So nice. Someone who is most probably of Sikh faith finds a Sikh forum and asks for help. History teaches us that Sikhs helped all, nowadays it's like lets just ridicule the person who reaches out for help as they have not lived up to the standard of what a Sikh is supposed to be. I dobut many of the posters on here are the rel mccoy, every one has faults.

Have compassion and instead of slating someone with the obvious give some advise that may actually help them. Like i've said many times before many may think they are good Sikhs but are they good humans? Does true sikhi not prescribe to the logic that you need to be a good human first then only you can be a good Sikh? Cause what is the point of doing all the formallities if your full of hatred or look down on others for not being to a standard you think is acceptable.

OP, alcholics have an addiction which is not easy to overcome. Like all addictions its not as easy as saying 'if you love me don't ever do it again'. The person may have every intention of keeping promises they make in not indulging into their addiction but it is SO HARD to repress those feelings and behaviours. They will do anything to satisfy the urge for their addiction, when they are feeling withdrawl symptoms. They need to see a psychologists and get to the root cause and address the issues. It is a long journey which with support can be overcome. With the majority of addicts it is there loved ones that suffer the most. Find help groups and in UK there are many addction centres that can help, be it for drink or drugs or gamballing. on my phone so can't type much sorry.

[Only five]

Sit down together when he is sober read or listen to Sukhmani Sahib daily. For some it takes only a few days, but for some it can take weeks as they have collected a lot of bad karma to hear(to hear the deep sound, the deep meaning or to even hear the message) the Guru's Bani has become very difficult for them. So it will be difficult to change instantly after listening or reading once. If you show and have actually devotion to the path of Sikhi, then maybe that will rub off on him and he will forget his bad habits and will improve himself.

[Guest Mankaran Singh]

You chose this path sister, so live with it !! Follow the path of sikhi and you wouldn't have these issues.

yup I agree with uuh bro yr.

Yr m new in sikhsangat.com really lucky to join this topic I can discuss anything related with Sikhism

But I don't know nything abt this website yet How to create forums,etc??

[banbinderjeet]

This is the indication that you will not be happy with him in the future. Before any mishappening you should quit your relationship with him. Its really not easy for you but for teh better future of your and him, end the relationship. As you mentioned here, you have tried many times to resolve problems but any positive progress.

[Gurpreet14]

So nice. Someone who is most probably of Sikh faith finds a Sikh forum and asks for help. History teaches us that Sikhs helped all, nowadays it's like lets just ridicule the person who reaches out for help as they have not lived up to the standard of what a Sikh is supposed to be. I dobut many of the posters on here are the rel mccoy, every one has faults.

Have compassion and instead of slating someone with the obvious give some advise that may actually help them. Like i've said many times before many may think they are good Sikhs but are they good humans? Does true sikhi not prescribe to the logic that you need to be a good human first then only you can be a good Sikh? Cause what is the point of doing all the formallities if your full of hatred or look down on others for not being to a standard you think is acceptable.

OP, alcholics have an addiction which is not easy to overcome. Like all addictions its not as easy as saying 'if you love me don't ever do it again'. The person may have every intention of keeping promises they make in not indulging into their addiction but it is SO HARD to repress those feelings and behaviours. They will do anything to satisfy the urge for their addiction, when they are feeling withdrawl symptoms. They need to see a psychologists and get to the root cause and address the issues. It is a long journey which with support can be overcome. With the majority of addicts it is there loved ones that suffer the most. Find help groups and in UK there are many addction centres that can help, be it for drink or drugs or gamballing. on my phone so can't type much sorry.

after reading this all i can say - babyyyy i am addicted ,.... i am out of controll coz ur the only drug that keeps me from dying....