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So I'm in year 9 and I have started wearing a dastar and these girls started laughing at me and I got a small fear inside me after that my mom says that I was the girl that have her strength and now I'm get scared myself I need tips on how I can get rid of this fear

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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa
Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!

No need to be scared of anything my lil sister! You remember the Ardaas we do everyday says Guru Gobind Singh ji Sabh Thaai Hoye Sahae ( Guru Gobind Singh ji is the protector in all places) In Japji Sahib we read everyday that the True Father to which we belong, is Nirbhao and Nirbher (Without fear and without enemy) . We are daughters of Great Father and Grandfather who fought bravely for what was right, sisters of Saahebzade who remained true to their Guru till the last breath, and ofcource daughters of such amazing Mata Sahib Kaur and Mata Gujri ji who had upmost love for Guru Sahib! :) How can we be scared dear?

When you feel scared, start doing Naam Simran in your heart! Do Ardaas in your heart say - Guru Sahib please protect your daughter Maharaj ji. Reapeat in your mind - Jin Nirbhao Jin Har Nirbhao thiiaaya Ji Tin Ka Bhao sab Gavasi ( That person who has chanted the Name of Fearless God, all his/her fear is destroyed )

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