I need help fast !

[Wingz23]

Well I'm so relieved now, I talked to a panj pyara yesterday and he said i did not break my Amrit, and that I should just do charan dhoor and ask for forgiveness .

Well Done for going :giggle:

[sat]

you are right , they just make it up along as they go . and keep changing rules.

Yes, the last time it was broken now its not :stupidme: , Rehat is not clear cut, (especially about a married couple taking together or not) but somethings you know just aint right like : lying , stealing, adultry , murder, slander, cheating someone, sex before marriage, gambling , smoking, drinking, kaam krodh etc etc, you dont need a written set of rules or a rehat issued from any taksal or jathebandi to know that !!!

[savinderpalsingh]

Yes, the last time it was broken now its not :stupidme: , Rehat is not clear cut, (especially about a married couple taking together or not) but somethings you know just aint right like : lying , stealing, adultry , murder, slander, cheating someone, sex before marriage, gambling , smoking, drinking, kaam krodh etc etc, you dont need a written set of rules or a rehat issued from any taksal or jathebandi to know that !!!

rehat is clearly mentioned but no one looks at puratan maryada

now as per the op

the guy from 5 payaare said its ok?

now if anyone asks him , can homo's go around doing it with every other same sex partner ,?? he would be confused

as for the op

bibi ji

your amrit is broken please , would like to advice you to contact a knowledgeable person . now days its becoming more of a joke

[MaiVelleeHaan]

He's a very knowledgeable person, it's not right to do what I did but it never broke my Amrit it wasn't a bujer kret, it's a kret just like cheating lieing Etc not bujer. All I needed to do was ask for forgiveness from guru sahib ji. If you lied to someone it's not like you gotta take Amrit again, yeah cheating is wrong and we shouldn't be doing it. Same thing with what I did, he yeah it's wrong and no one should be doing it but its not a bujer kret.

[sat]

rehat is clearly mentioned but no one looks at puratan maryada

now as per the op

the guy from 5 payaare said its ok?

now if anyone asks him , can homo's go around doing it with every other same sex partner ,?? he would be confused

as for the op

bibi ji

your amrit is broken please , would like to advice you to contact a knowledgeable person . now days its becoming more of a joke

I agree with you , but my point was that Guru Maharaj ji has given us knowledge and sense to think for our selves, there is no point doing something which ones inner self (Waheguru ) tells us is wrong , then asking sangat has my amrit broken!!, thats why we mention bibek dhan in our ardas, to know the difference between right and wrong, Rehat is a guide, we are all Waheguru ji's jyot,so have the gyan already within us.

[DalbirSingh]

So you are bisexual how does that work you are sexually attracted to women, like mentally does that get confusing?

[Guest Singh]

Bhen Ji if it was a guy and you had to get peshed its the same thing with your own gender. What if I just started making out with a dude and not get peshed, would that be alright? May Guru Sahib save me from that kind of behaviour. But lets get peshed and move on now. This should be a lesson for everybody.

[innergear]

Are there any limits in a marriage. Please tell me as i thort you can do all in the marriage?

[Guest kbk]

Exactly, marriage is a life where you and your partner are as close as possible obviously there are no restrictions. Correct me if I am wrong we all make mistakes.

[Guest SJR SINGH]

oh god.!! what a time has come now..such cases are found to hear..you girls don't even ashamed of it to post such questions over here...? go and consult with any maha purush who could tell you about the solution... I just know when you have decided to have amrit.after that do the love with only god nothing else should be considered.. the mistake you just did is the result of your unstable mind and heart..its being attracted to the worldly and temporary pleasures..oh god..what are you doing sikh girls??you are degrading sikhi..first non baptized girls were admitted to such stuffs and now baptized too? I think someone is degrading sikh girls..its a fake question...