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Can i marry my bhabi's cousin brother according to sikh religion?


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Bhaji please read all the posts i have made earlier on this topic, and you will see.

OK, I think I see what you mean.

Correct me if i'm wrong......- Clearly it's a case of bhabhi being a girl coming from that family and then the giving back of a girl, which isn't to be done in practice ? Which is NOT about sikhi but more a cultural issue.

NOW, even though the Boy is bhua's son therefore from a different family name and pind, he is still seen as the bhabi's brother- doesn't matter if he's direct blood or not, he's still a brother.

I'm sure that this is what you mean, and in all honesty I can see where it's coming from.!!!

He's still from 'that side' of the family tree.

I agree with what you are saying and I'm glad you pointed it out. But I'm sure you agree that this is not sikhi or gurmat practice. Like all the other cultural issues that Punjabis stay glued to, this is one of them.

If both families agreed to it, then i'm sure there would be no problem and no one would question it.

Besides, it seems that some of these cultural things are only looked for deeply by the one's who want to make a fuss. I mean the girl has her own Bhua's son's and daughters, that are like brother's and sisters to her, Do they also have the same brother-sister relationship with her bhabi's bhua's son ??

It gets a little ridiculous then doesn't it ?

You have to draw the line somewhere and sikhi was created by Guru Nanak ji because of these cultural beliefs/rituals and complications.

It is NOT Sikhism just like mehndi, maayan and all those rituals outside of anand karaj.

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Punjabi culture is the bane of a gursikh's existence its all to do with pride/ego and attachment (apparently 2 of the panj chor we seem to celebrate)

seems the OP is suffering from a serious case of kaam with her brothers mothers sisters cousins bhuas brother. why is everything such a bollywood dream now? the OP is way to young to be considering marraige from the sentence structure of her replies and the way she convenietly misses out the posts which tell her to stop being such a child. if she was adult enough she would have responded to this but instead will only respond to replies which condone what is going on

penji (OP) you are the sister of everyone on this forum and although we will still help to tell you that watta satta is cultural b/s, i dont think many approve of what is going on.; if you actually feel adult enough to be married then please show your parents the respect they deserve by talking about this with them!

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I agree with what you are saying and I'm glad you pointed it out. But I'm sure you agree that this is not sikhi or gurmat practice. Like all the other cultural issues that Punjabis stay glued to, this is one of them.

Bhaji, i said that in my first post. There is nothing wrong in Gurmat about this, but it is not practiced in Panjabi culture.

If this arrangement was between let say Sikhs from the 3ho, no-one would care, but its not part of the western culture.

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if you really loves go on because no one ready for this complicated matter for your family and i think the family of boy do nothing against you but your father really case against your lover and this is bed things so why are you spoil the life of boy /

if you want to merry you merry in ganjiyabad delhi court and after merry you tell about your family .

this is only way .

god bless you

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