Sanjog And "bad Timing" / Divorce

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Unless any of you have gone through divorce there is really no way to comment on it

An individual can turn to gurbani through their marriage, they can take the learning and apply it-patience, love, kindness, forgiveness. But it has to work BOTH ways

And it can be very easy and quick to say Sikhs give up too easy, they have too much independence and choice. But how about the fact that they may be in an abuaive relationship? How about the fact that only one spouse is working at it? Gurbani says to work hard and try but it also says to face up to opression, to deal with the Truth.

Noone gets married to get divorced, whether that's Sikh, Christians, Jews, Hindus etc etc. and also divorce is mentioned in Gurbani - written hundreds of years ago-was divorce not then something occurring then for the gurus and salts to write about it?

Divorce is a hard mental step to take and go through without it being made worse by judgments of those who are lucky enough to not have experience of it