Sleeping Around Too Much?

[MKaur89]

I don't see what the issue with the original post is and think it's a very valid topic, essentially the poster is asking for advice on forgiveness from a Sikhi point of view- which would most likely be backed up with gurmat and Gurbani.

It's not really about the rights and wrongs of pre-marital relationships or promiscuity, as the person concerned already knows about that, hence their concerns about getting married to someone who has been promiscuous in the past.

The main issue innergear is asking for advice about is forgiveness and there are lots of examples of forgiveness that we can learn from in Gurbani, in sakhian and from the lives of our Gurus and other Sikhs of their times and also the present time.

[innergear]

This topic has and is effectin sikhs so that shud be enuf said . On that . But also think if we all thought no stay away 4m such girls or guyss then we mite then ther risk losing these ppl to other religions. Our sikhi shud b strong enuf to cope with past of a partner. It seems like everyone these days has a past. I not sayin anythin is ok. Just that shud this bro say no to move on to a next person wit almost the same stuff! Or guyss here wil say marry a virgin tha u don't really like just cos she is a virgin type.

An thanx 4sharin the personal exp of life, it helps to c wo happene

This topic has and is effectin sikhs so that shud be enuf said . On that . But also think if we all thought no stay away 4m such girls or guyss then we mite then ther risk losing these ppl to other religions. Our sikhi shud b strong enuf to cope with past of a partner. It seems like everyone these days has a past. I not sayin anythin is ok. Just that shud this bro say no to move on to a next person wit almost the same stuff! Or guyss here wil say marry a virgin tha u don't really like just cos she is a virgin type.

An thanx 4sharin the personal exp of life, it helps to c wo happene