~~~ Four Types Of Vichar/discussion- Two Allowed In Sikhi ~~~

[N30S1NGH]

We are all guilty of debating or discussing outside of gursikh principles ((which includes me off course), just wanted to take this chance to post sakhi from Sri Guru Hargobind Sahib Ji updesh to pandits on discussion/debates and whats allowed for Gursikhs.

Four types of Conversations/discussion-

1) Heth - Where you listen to someone because you know they have more kamai and more knowledge than you. You are humble when listening. This also applies to school.

2) Vaadha - Where you actually do your research and share to positively add to a conversation constructively. Even if there is disagreement, you should not hurt another's feelings or prove that you are better.

3) Jalapa - Where you say stuff to put the other down. Try to make yourself look good.

4) Vitaardha - Where you keep talking and don't listen to anyone else (the majority of us).

*** This is from a sakhi where some pundits asked Guru Hargobind Ji what type of conversations are allowed. Guru Hargobind Ji said a Gursikh only takes part in the first 2 types of conversations. ***

[isingh1699]

This is a really great post which i could do well to learn from :biggrin2:

[ekgurjaskhalsa]

Thank you for sharing this

[N30S1NGH]

Good message to revisit and adapt virtues above. No worries i am guilty like everyone else. Vahiguroo kirpa bakshan, keep allowing all of us to improve.

[DSGj]

Good message to revisit and adapt virtues above. No worries i am guilty like everyone else. Vahiguroo kirpa bakshan, keep allowing all of us to improve.

You are most guilty bro, you need some serious help.....a lot of times you seem to be no different than RSS/Indian Anti-Sikh Agents.

I'm pretty sure you got the original post information from listening to Baba Hari Singh Randhava's Suraj Prakash Katha...please implement the teachings into your life and not let it go through one ear and out the other.