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Im a muslim girl myself and was/still am in love with a sikh guy and his family are just as much against him marrying a muslim than say for his example his sister doing it, i dont think sikhi has any room for double standards, neither does islam. We are quite similar to be honest, the two religions, and although it gets crazy at the time of marriage, it still hurts to see two such close cultures/religions hating each other. I myself have been into a gurdwara and experienced it however he would have never stepped foot into a mosque, i understand that going to each others holy places of worship has no offence to either religion? does it not? its just marriage thats not allowed.

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Over 450 views, but only 2 replies? I can't imagine how badly this would have blown up if it was a Sikh girl and Muslim guy in the video I posted lol.

So I take it from the lack of responses that no one really cares when an apna munda marries a Muslim girl? :blink2:

So true! I am a muslim girl myself and find it crazzyyyyyyyyy how muslim guys are potrayed as so evil and horrible when they fall in love with a sikh girl.. I fell in love with a sikh guy/still am in love with him its not something you can have full control of , and it doesn't make me evil, i understand his beliefs he understands mine, and we realise that there is no future if we have religion in our veins. its just the truth it doesnt work out. but double standards should stop in every religion, islam sikhism everywhere, and this hate between the two religions is ridiculous . The pakistan-india divide happened years ago! get over it. Or atleast accept that its not the case now

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I'm not usually a violent person but i would slap any so called Sikhs face who claims Sikhs can marry non-sikhs and its in the religion to do so.

These so called lily liberal hippys posing as Sikhs need to be ex-communisted from the faith and put on a blacklist so that all Sikhs can see what their views are and how they are deteredmind to decreasee our demographics by inter-faith weddings and relationships. May waheguru curse them and their families for daring to even suggest interfaith relationship with Sikhs is ok.

Sikh females are particular vulnerable to grooming by non-sikh guys if they are brought up in a household where traditional Sikh values are not taught and where the izzat of a woman her self respect is not engrained in her. We need to be doing alot more converting Jewish, Christian and Muslim women into Sikhism because alot of them are following the vile abrahmic ideologies. Hindu women usually assimulate into Sikhi quite nicely thats why there isnt much an issue with marrying hindus however they need to be taught that kids will be raised as Sikhs and idol worship must be stopped if they marry a Sikh guy otherwise their kids become those lilly liberal hippy Sikhs that create the problem with inter-faith relationships we seem to have at present.

If a person wants to marry a non-sikh they MUST convert must embrace Sikhism must raise their kids in the Sikh faith otherwise dont even try it or you will get a rejection from gurdwara commitee's. We need more vocal more proactive not decrease it because its only with being strong on these issues does our faith prosper when we go all lilly liberal then our community is the loosers and other damaging ideologies and sly faith communities are the winners in these outcomes.

Ok, Conversion, how would a person convert to become a Sikh?

Scenario:

A Sikh gets married to a non Sikh. This Sikh has a Haircut, consumes meat and alcohol, very rarely visits the Gurdawara. Only getting married in the Gurdwara because mummy dear wants it. Would you define this person as a Sikh?

So, this Sikh, wants to marry a non Sikh and they both marry in the Gurdwara. But, still, how would you define the non-Sikh has converted to the SIkh faith ?

Will the non-Sikh be required to go through a ritual of some sort ( Currently the Sikh Dharam does not have a ritual in place). By calling yourself Kaur or Singh, does not make you a Sikh unless you have taken Amrit.

If the conversion is easy as changing the name to include Kaur or SIngh, then for that day these individuals follow process. Everything is perfect, conversion is complete non-Sikh is a Sikh.

So this Sikh and the non-Sikh (converted to a Sikh) are married. They carry on with their life as they did before, what you may consider as non Sikh like.

Would you still define the newly converted Sikh to be a Sikh?

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@meera

Sikhi and islam is not at all similar. Sikhi is about joining Gods presence wheras islam is about subjugation of women under man. Sikhi is good, free from hatred and love for all Gods creation is paramount. islam is evil, full of hate and dislike of Gods creation. Just two massive difference.

Wherever there is war there is islam.

A muslim and Sikh can never marry. It may be allowed in islam but it is NOT in Sikhi. There should be no confusing this. If you dont believe me ask any Amritdari Sikh.

Thus your relationship is futile and i cannot understand why you would want it to continue.

Sikhs love Guru Ji above all things, including this thing you call Love.

This has nothing to do with the india-pak division.

It is common knowledge now that muslim boys have been paid to groom Sikh girls and convert them........if that doesnt sound EVIL to you then you must be a demon!

The Sikhs will only tolerate islams foolessness for so long!

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@meera

Sikhi and islam is not at all similar. Sikhi is about joining Gods presence wheras islam is about subjugation of women under man. Sikhi is good, free from hatred and love for all Gods creation is paramount. islam is evil, full of hate and dislike of Gods creation. Just two massive difference.

Wherever there is war there is islam.

A muslim and Sikh can never marry. It may be allowed in islam but it is NOT in Sikhi. There should be no confusing this. If you dont believe me ask any Amritdari Sikh.

Thus your relationship is futile and i cannot understand why you would want it to continue.

Sikhs love Guru Ji above all things, including this thing you call Love.

This has nothing to do with the india-pak division.

It is common knowledge now that muslim boys have been paid to groom Sikh girls and convert them........if that doesnt sound EVIL to you then you must be a demon!

The Sikhs will only tolerate islams foolessness for so long!

According to Islam, a muslim cannot marry a non muslim. The latter would have to convert to Islam to do so.

It is only the pseudo Sikhs who have grown so weak in their faith that they marry muslims, hindus, christians and the lot.

This is the reason why Sikhs are getting fewer in numbers and Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world today.

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Most muslim girls envy their Sikh girls mates in the way they have much more freedom over their lives and the rights they have in sikhi compared to Islam, Muslim girls know themselves that islam means submission and not peace, therefore they are submitting to the will of muhammad (or allah however you want to see it). So to target muslim girls for conversion to Sikhi should be a vital strategic step Sikh organisations need to look at ensuring social cohesive puristic society.

Muslim girls and guys do try to convert their Sikh girl mates to islam using underhand tactics of sugar coating islam and not showing them the full picture of islam such as verses on 72 virgins for men but nothing like that for women, rivers of wine in heaven, 4 witnesses needed before rape can be proved, men can marry 4 wives women cant have 4 husbands, men can marry non-muslim women but muslim women cannot marry a non-muslim, etc,etc

The problem we Sikhs are having is is not promoting Sikhism enough and letting the promoters of islam take over.

Sikhism has a brand awareness and marketing issue, once thats resolved you will see the numbers increase.

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