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On the subject of jhooth....i was blessed with amrit 2 yrs ago..before that....i was everything sikhi tells you not to be. My question is my wife has not take n amrit. And the reason she refuses to is because I would like her to wear a dastaar although i fully understand that it is a personal choice for women and the head can be covered in other ways...she believes that I will try to pressure her into wearing a dastaar...which i wont. As i was alone taking amrit.....would i be wrong to have any form of physical connection with her ?

wearing dsatar isnt important for women however its important to wear chunnie / keep head covered/ or a patka at all times .

according to Damdami taksal rehat you cannot indulge in physical relation with your wife if she hasnt taken amrit

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Taksal rehat is very specific and that is good. If a Singh turns to amrit ceremony without his partner or vice versa the 5 payarae actually send you away or tell you to bring your other half. It is forbidden and if an amritshakiya can only marry a amritshaki then there is no logic in saying that amrishakiya Singh can eat jhoot/sleep with his no baptised wife. Its also common sense.

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Thx for thw replies brothers and sisters.....when i meant physical relstionship..i did not mean it was limited to the bedroom stuff normal couples do in bed...i meant hugs in the morning kissing her on the cheek before i leave work...please note i was far from a sikh before two yrs ago. I wanted to be blessed with amrit as i wanted structure and disciple in my life and being given amrit and going straighr in...forced me to keep my mind in check and focus on family time...not nasha and friends... in regards to dastaar...she feels i will pressure her but i know i wont...i know its mandatory to cover the head wether it be patka etc...i was not amrithdari nor a sikh by image before and for the first 5 years of mareiage.. .maybe i shoild not have gone to take amrit then......waheguru

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An Amritdhari can only share food with other Amritdhari, weather its anyone. But its not allowed to eat jhootha food from un-Amritdharis Ji

Really? Tell me the concept of Khalsa panth then? Just creating more caste barriers being "Amritdhar!i"

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Really? Tell me the concept of Khalsa panth then? Just creating more caste barriers being "Amritdhar!i"

I'm curious to know where in SGGS Ji it says anything about refusing to share food with someone based on anything other than their conduct and behavior. Guru Nanak Dev Ji did not make distinction between Hindu and Muslim. So sad that today we are making distinctions between members of our own Panth.

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Aman- SGGSJMaharaj is nirol Brahm Di katha (only gods katha, explanation) as said by sant singh ji maskeen, plus the rehatnamey passed down say that jhoota nehi khana on amritdharis. If u hav a prob so be it I'm not gonna argue over this okay so u do ur arguing and be happy @argue.com

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