pakistan's support to Khalistani's were on the basis of being cannon fodder to keep indian army at bay and busy while the afghan jihad was going on and resources were poured over there. Once the afghanistan campaign was coming to an end and soviets looking to withdraw they switched their true attentions and passion for capturing all of kashmir by kicking off things there.
Alot of negativity and fighting from wife's can actually stem from other issues. Ie she may feel like she is an outsider. She resents the fact that she gets alot of criticism from her in-laws.
Basically she is taking out all her anger and emotions out on you. She knows she can't do it to anyone else. So your the only guy where she gets to vent some Steem.
She sounds like she is very touchy and easily angered by the slightest negative comment.
If you tell her she is not doing something right she takes it as a personal attack. When she should just do what your family does. Ie a certain way of cooking. Or a certain way of cleaning. She needs to adjust to your household ways.
Sadly alot of women from back home are quite stubborn and want to do things their way. And if you ask nicely if they can change their methods. They get aggressive won't corporate like a reasonable person.
Many also talk in a disrespectful way. I don't know if this is a cultural thing. But many women from back home are are plains rude.
Bro that isn't feminism. Nor pseudo feminism. That's some advice, spoken nicely, to help you see things from your wife's point of view, maybe help you be less abusive and self entitled and grow up.
Like bro...you acted like a baby, then cried like a baby because your wife was worried her hard work might not please you? You still didn't say if the food was even good.
Like.. she's already accommodated your sexuality in a big way, she doesn't need two infants. She needs a man yes, but a gurmukh not a manmukh baby bruh.