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Job Help. Im Crying Everyday- I Dont Have Friends.....i Have Turned To The Internet For Help


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I work as a dental technician. I have a degree and i need help, why? Its because i earn per hour, so at the end of the day i get £60 no matter how jobs i do. My boss she is changing the entire business from now on it will be unit based, so monday i made 5 jobs i get £25, tuesday i made2 jobs i get £10. My boss has soo many years experience, her work is amazing and she pressures me to make work like hers. She tells me off saying my work is <banned word filter activated> no good ugly and she wants it to her standard. I physically cant make a tooth to her level. She is expert im just a junior. She has over 10years experience i have 1year.

Iv cried every night because i did a degree and now im getting this. Im tearing up writting this, what can my dental technology degree get me a job in. I have no family here in uk or any friends. Im turning to internet for help.

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I don't think she can only pay you per jobs as in the UK you need to be paid minimum wage at least, you should try to contact citizens advice.

There are plenty of opportunities for you, do not take this abuse from her, she can't speak to you in such a derogatory manner. Once you know your rights she will be more aware of your behaviour.

She has no right to say things like that to you, not everyone is a master, don't be scared to tell her to give you constructive criticism but she can't criticise you unnecessarily.

Be strong, I know it's hard for you, listen to sukhmani sahib paath and remain chardikala

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Keep your current job and at the same time you should immediately start looking for another company to join. Is your current job internship or actual job with benefits and all?

I agree, your boss sounds like a bully and its easy to start doubting yourself and losing your confidence at work so try to get support, not sure where you live but is there a union or someone you can speak to even if you don't report her it will help to make you feel you're not alone. Also keep yourself up and in chardi kala by listening to patt and seeking support from Waheguruji these are the times when it will help you feel closer to Waheguru and that you're not alone - remember there is more to you then this job, and with Waheguruji's blessings you will find a better one. try to do things you enjoy outside of work so you get a rest from it. This person is only creating bad karam for herself and will reap what she sows later,

Good luck, and hope it works out for you,

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